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A year later
A year later im missing him, searching for him every where, though it was the best decision not to continue with the relationship. How can someone just stop thinking and searching for someone they miss, probably not miss, its more of an anger, sad, frustrated feeling that i want to vent it out on him
I can’t stop contacting her
She asked me to leave her alone but our last conversation ended so badly I had to let her know I didn’t mean what I said and I’m sorry. Does anyone else have this issue?
I feel weak
It’s been 4 months post break up. I found out she’s been seeing other people and has slept with someone. I’m trying my hardest to move on but feel as if I won’t be able to do better. She’s very physically attractive, smart and has qualities any guy would want. I broke up with her way too many times to count and cheated. She gave up on me and now I feel like I’m unable to move on. My confidence/self esteem is low and I want to just get away from everything.
Wellbeing
I am good enough
Mentally cheating? I need help
I'm in the process of taking a break from my boyfriend. It happened 2 weeks ago, I found out he used telegram to join the group and watch another girl's clip. Even the group mentioned video call, service. After I found out, I was very disappointed and sad. He watched during the time and day that I worked.I talked to him. Then I realized I was pregnant. During the argument, I chose to stop fighting. We decided to get an abortion pill. He swears that he never watch porn or another girl again and hurting me. But I found out again today, that he did watch when I went to work. I feel he's mentally cheating. What should I do?
i miss you
i still dont understand why we broke up. and it honestly feels like its all my fault. im sorry that i overthink too much and im sorry that i have so many insecurities that came up in our relationship too. you loved me properly and i made you feel as if you didnt. i made you feel as if you weren’t enough for me to feel loved just cause of my overthinking. and im extremely sorry for it. i loved being with you those were probably the best months of my life. i genuinely felt loved and i thought i didnt deserve all the loved you gave me. i felt unworthy but at the same time i enjoyed it so much that thinking about letting things go made my heart hurt. i would have never thought youd be the one to end things after promising me that you wouldnt leave me. but i honestly understand june. im hard to deal with i know im sorry. i hope that we’ll find each other again. having to be just friends hurts.
Ex
If you even read this I appreciate you. I got very close with this girl for like the past 2 months. She’s never had a boyfriend but has only brought over like 2 guys home before that her mom absolutely hated, they left because they thought she was scary. Her mom said I’m the only person she has ever liked out of other guys she has brought home. Keep in mind all the dudes she tried to date left because her mom is scary and I understand why which I don’t seem to mind it doesn’t effect me at all we get along like we’ve known each other for ever. Me and this girl dated for about a week, and she dumped me because of, “confusion school, worried she doesn’t want to hurt me.” Her mom is religious and I swear to god she could read my mind 80% of the time as we sat all together discussing the problem as she invited me over the day after for a talk about me and her dauther. I’m able to talk to her mom like a best friend and say anything I feel. I really love this girl she lightened something in me that just made me appreciate her like no other human. We always got along had have never fought.
Narcissistic Husbanf
So I currently have a protective order on my husband, mind you this wasn’t the first time he’d been abusive, but I told him the next time would be his last. Well of course he can’t respect the no contact, but today he told me to my face that because I won’t lift the protective order I’m not doing enough so I asked him to see himself to the door. If he had done the minimum we wouldn’t be here. Anyone dealt with something similar? How did you handle it… or how would you handle it?
Trying to leave narcissistic boyfriend
Hey so I’ve been in this relationship for a year and 4 months. He’s isolated me from my friends and is trying to isolate me from my family now. He hits me and shoves me but says that it’s because I’m emotional and that it’s ’good for a woman and they secretly like it’. He yells at me for random things and I can never tell when he will snap. He’s an alcoholic and unemployed and I keep trying to tell him to get off the alcohol but he says it’s not that bad (he drinks 2L of whiskey and will stay up from 6pm to 11pm the next day every fortnight). He doesn’t let me go out with friends because apparently it’s not me being loyal but he can go to bars alone and doesn’t see the problem. Everything’s my fault because I’m a woman and thus forth emotional. He says he’s smarter than everyone and he’s in the 1% but does nothing all day but game and read philosophy which in his mind backs up his thoughts that he (a white male) is the best thing to exist and women and any other race is inferior. I’m trying to get out but he scares me so much. He’s cut off every friend I have and has made me feel so replaceable, ugly, emotional, annoying and dumb. What do I do?
Seeking advice
I am so attached that I can’t leave him and he taking me for granted He said if I want to leave he is not going to stop me . He said he want to explore new relationship I want to leave him so bad but I don’t know I am so sensitive that I start to cry
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