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First real heartbreak
After almost a year of dating and up and down, my boyfriend broke up with me by kicking me out of this house at midnight and ghosting me and when I reached out, he basically said he can’t do it anymore no explanation or anything
I was abusive and a terrible partner
I was a terrible partner towards the man I really loved. Over time I became very jealous and also I frightened in fights with breaking up. I also was very hurtful when fighting and said things I never ment or wanted to say. At some point he couldn’t stand it anymore and left. He ignores any contact since the break up 3 weeks ago. I apologised a lot for my behaviour but he wouldn’t reply at all. What I finally learned is that I have to change! I have been in relationships and was often hiding behind the behaviour of my partner because it’s easier than facing the own duck ups. By lesson now is to work on myself to get better and a better partner. Unfortunately to learn that I lost my greatest love.
In love with an emotionally unavailable man for years
Things are over and I am so unbelievably sad. He never wanted me the way I wanted him. So painful. I never want this ever ever again. I am never going to look at another man. I can’t do this ever again.
Feeling a bit lost
Breaking up and ending a marriage. Two kids and man it is messing with my mind
The never dating
We never actually dated we only talked, but it felt so really we fell for each other fast or at least I fell for him. He said he loved me. I said I loved him too the same day he said he needed space then later that night he texted me and said he’s not sure what he wanted and then we kept talking, I should’ve known to stop. Then the very next night I woke up at around 4 AM to see a text from him. it was a long paragraph and I knew I didn’t wanna read it as I started reading it. It said that he didn’t want me and he didn’t want me to wait for him. I couldn’t sleep at all for a week because I never got to date him and I never got to actually know him and I Think that that’s why I still miss him.
Abrupt breakup
My ex ended things with me a week ago in a way that felt very out of the blue. We wanted different things for our future. We were together for 2 years almost. I am having such a hard time accepting that he wanted to end it. I loved him so much. I want him to come back and change his mind so badly. I can’t believe this was what he wanted, but I’m choosing to respect it. I don’t know how I’m going to pick the pieces back up from this one 💔
Ex
. I’m a very nice and forgiving person but I know I had made big mistakes. Me and my ex started dating April 2024 . We broke up at 11 months in because I coudnt handle the fact he would watch other girls and jerk off to them. Or look at girls asses infront me. This made me very insecure and made me want to go to the gym made me hate my self I would always be crying begging him to change and i remember one time he even laughed at me. I felt like it was such a bug thing bc we would have yk and he had pictures of me yet he would look at girls with big sss and curves. After that we where on and off bc I didn’t want to be with him if he was going to do that and I would take him bc he said he’d change for me but I would always find stuff. On TikTok, YouTube, TikTok shop, safari. He would get better at hiding stuff and honestly I hated that so much. He even called me flat one day and my boobs arnt big enough. At thag time I took it very very deeply since I already hated my body from what he would do. I remember his cousin would also bring her friends over to his house the whole year we was tg to just be there bc she gets along with his mom. But he just never told me abt this until his sister told me and he had told her not to tell me. I didn’t think much of it until I went through his phone and he texted his cousin that we broke up and she said dw u still got genisis . And he had told her give me her number and tell her I said good night. He then said it was a joke. After all that around June 2025 I had talked to another boy and I felt really guilty so I told him. After that we was never the same. He stopped begging he stopped trying and i understood him. And ever since then we would just see eachother in the low we wasn’t even tg. We would do what we would always do but just not tg. And at some point we stopped seeing eachother for 3 months. And now I want to just stop this.
Break up after 4 years
I am having such a hard time my ex broke up with me I did everything for him after 4 years he says he just deeply cares for me. I can’t get over this pain.
Me and my ex.
I met this guy who ill call ‘A’ I broke up with him this morning because i went through his messages and found out he didn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore and said that he was losing interest. We met through a friend and Its only been 20 days and i don’t know what i did wrong. Ive stalked his socials, cried all day, and had the urge to text him so much today. someone please help and send tips to get over an ex thanks.
My ex
How can girls have people so far up they asses, I did everything for this girl I was there in the hardest times, when she broke up with me I got back together, when she blocked me for a bit over a week and randomly texted me like nothing ever happened, when I opened up and she got angry. She often got angry at me for the smallest things. I never ever threw my anger on her, was always nice and was like a angel to her, and she has me so far up the ass like I just slaughtered her family, I cannot understand how girls can be like this it's like she never knew me, she is soooo cold. And still after everything I think about her often and miss her, she's to only person I ever opened up to Like that and really talked to, I have a really closed sircle and don't really like meeting new people and talking about feelings, but with her it's different but what she thinks about that, that I don't know. How can girls be like this?? I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy
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