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I miss him
I keep asking him to block me bc I can’t stop myself from messaging him, but he refuses to do it. It would be comforting to be able to text him every now and then without him seeing it. Idek what to do, he was my first love. All I do is cry all the time and it’s been months :(
Hello
Im so sad
What do I do?
So I had been seeing this guy for three months but it progressed really fast. We had met each other’s families and friends, we were exclusive and things were going great. At the end of Dec he lost his job and then worked hard to find a new one. He is a therapist so his goal was to keep his clients and make sure he was able to find a new job quickly so they would have to go without help. Even though he found a new job and kept his clients things felt a little bit off towards the end of Jan and he broke up with me in the first part of Feb. he said it was because he was struggling to even care for himself (eat, sleep, etc. ) and didn’t have the eagerly to put into a relationship. He said he needed to handle this on his own, but I don’t know how to let go of the amazing connection we had. I just feel like our story is t supposed to be over yet, what do I do?
Can someone tell me what this means
He keeps blocking me and unblocking me like repeatedly on TikTok stayed unblocked on fb for 2 days and been blocked on instagram since we broke up
Help pls
I’ll try to keep this short. My first love broke up with me in October 2024 because he said he had lost feelings for me. We had been together for about a year. A week after the breakup he met his current girlfriend. However, for about a month after we broke up he kept changing his mind sometimes he wanted to get back together, sometimes he didn’t. Later he changed his mind completely, removed me from everything, and about one or two months after our breakup he was already with that girl. I don’t know exactly when they officially started dating. A few months later, during the summer, he watched my Instagram story. About a month later he watched my friend’s story. Now I feel like I’ve mostly moved on and it doesn’t affect me that much anymore. But a few months later, about two weeks ago, he watched my story where I posted a selfie. I didn’t expect that at all.He watched that story twice. Two days later he blocked me, unblocked me, blocked me again, and then unblocked me again. A week later I posted a story in the morning from a birthday party, and later that evening I posted another story from the same party because my friends tagged me. He watched both of them very quickly. A few days later I posted another story of myself. First he viewed the story from a fake account ,I’m convinced it’s a fake account because I saw that his email and phone number are connected to it. Then he watched it twice from his main account as well, because his name appeared at the top of the viewer list. Another strange thing is that he blocked my friend, my sister, and two of my other friends — but I am still not blocked. Why did he suddenly start stalking and watching me like this? We don’t even follow each other anymore, so he has to actively search for my profile to see my stories. And he still has a girlfriend, which makes it even stranger to me.
uhh idk
to sum it up me and my ex of two years recently reconciled after 170days of breaking up and it’s going differently and completely well.
update about the post below
i kept ignoring him and after 3 weeks of him trying to reach out and being ignored he called me. In the call he was asking how i was doing and begged me to be his friend, he even said that he wanted to came over under my house without me knowing. At the end he told me to move on and compared me to his new girlfriend. Then why he called me? really i can’t understand that. i told him to never reach out again and that he’s nothing for me now. I hope i did the right thing… do you think he will reach out again now? tbh i hope that he comes back and ask for a relationship
help me
hey everyone, i'm going through a really tough breakup and could use some outside perspective. my ex and i were in a situationship, and almost a month ago he told me he didn't love me anymore and left me for someone else. he blocked me on everything right after. i've been doing no contact since then, but he's been the one breaking it. he's texted me a few times late at night (like 3am), asking about my dog and sending stickers, even though he's the one who said he never wanted to talk to me again. now i have an unread message sitting in my archived chats. i searched through every contact i have in my archives and nothing else came up, so it's almost certainly him. i've been too scared to open it for days. does it seem like he still has feelings, or do you think it's really him sitting in my archives trying to reach out again?
Please let someone tell me what they think about this.
My first love broke up with me at the end of 2024 after almost a year together because he said he had lost his feelings. A week later he started talking to his current girlfriend. In the month after the breakup, he kept saying he wanted to get back together with me, but then he changed his mind. I suffered a lot. One of the last things he said to me was: “I’m sorry that I can’t love someone as perfect as you for longer” and “I wish I knew how to love the way you do.” My love for him was very deep. I know that the whole time he was lying to and manipulating both me and that girl, talking to both of us at the same time. A month after the breakup, he removed me from Instagram and TikTok. It hurt because I realized he chose her. I don’t want him after he touched another girl, so I blocked him on Facebook (and he’s still blocked to this day) to move on and so he wouldn’t have the chance to come back. Last summer he viewed my Instagram story even though he doesn’t follow me. A month later he also viewed my friend’s story. I wanted peace, so I made my account private so he wouldn’t watch my stories. A few months passed, and recently I made my account public again and posted a story. He viewed it suddenly after 20 minutes even though he still doesn’t follow me and is still in that relationship. The next day he viewed it again and didn’t even try to hide it. I don’t know if he was waiting for a reaction from me or what. Yesterday evening he blocked me, this morning he unblocked me, and shortly after that he blocked me again. I don’t understand what he wants or why he’s doing this. What do you think?
Self-esteem shattered
This is a really phenomenal video that I found about the logical fallacies that harm our self-esteem after a break up
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