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irritatingmeaning9
2mo ago
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Help pls

I’ll try to keep this short. My first love broke up with me in October 2024 because he said he had lost feelings for me. We had been together for about a year. A week after the breakup he met his current girlfriend. However, for about a month after we broke up he kept changing his mind sometimes he wanted to get back together, sometimes he didn’t. Later he changed his mind completely, removed me from everything, and about one or two months after our breakup he was already with that girl. I don’t know exactly when they officially started dating. A few months later, during the summer, he watched my Instagram story. About a month later he watched my friend’s story. Now I feel like I’ve mostly moved on and it doesn’t affect me that much anymore. But a few months later, about two weeks ago, he watched my story where I posted a selfie. I didn’t expect that at all.He watched that story twice. Two days later he blocked me, unblocked me, blocked me again, and then unblocked me again. A week later I posted a story in the morning from a birthday party, and later that evening I posted another story from the same party because my friends tagged me. He watched both of them very quickly. A few days later I posted another story of myself. First he viewed the story from a fake account ,I’m convinced it’s a fake account because I saw that his email and phone number are connected to it. Then he watched it twice from his main account as well, because his name appeared at the top of the viewer list. Another strange thing is that he blocked my friend, my sister, and two of my other friends — but I am still not blocked. Why did he suddenly start stalking and watching me like this? We don’t even follow each other anymore, so he has to actively search for my profile to see my stories. And he still has a girlfriend, which makes it even stranger to me.

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flimsyperception7l11mo ago

I think it might be healthier to pay less attention to him viewing your story. While it shows some curiosity, he hasn’t actually communicated with you. He also has a girlfriend, which makes it feel a bit off, and honestly, he’s probably not worth your time. I know he was your first love, and getting over that is really hard—but you’ve handled everything so well, and you should be proud of yourself for that. It might help to look at the reality of his actions. He hasn’t reached out, hasn’t said anything about still liking you, and he’s still with the same girl he got with right after you—while also removing you from everything. You deserve someone who is clear about how they feel and chooses you properly, not someone who leaves you second guessing. You’re doing the right thing, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now, and things will get easier with time x

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