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I’ll try to keep this short. My first love broke up with me in October 2024 because he said he had lost feelings for me. We had been together for about a year. A week after the breakup he met his current girlfriend. However, for about a month after we broke up he kept changing his mind sometimes he wanted to get back together, sometimes he didn’t. Later he changed his mind completely, removed me from everything, and about one or two months after our breakup he was already with that girl. I don’t know exactly when they officially started dating. A few months later, during the summer, he watched my Instagram story. About a month later he watched my friend’s story. Now I feel like I’ve mostly moved on and it doesn’t affect me that much anymore. But a few months later, about two weeks ago, he watched my story where I posted a selfie. I didn’t expect that at all.He watched that story twice. Two days later he blocked me, unblocked me, blocked me again, and then unblocked me again. A week later I posted a story in the morning from a birthday party, and later that evening I posted another story from the same party because my friends tagged me. He watched both of them very quickly. A few days later I posted another story of myself. First he viewed the story from a fake account ,I’m convinced it’s a fake account because I saw that his email and phone number are connected to it. Then he watched it twice from his main account as well, because his name appeared at the top of the viewer list. Another strange thing is that he blocked my friend, my sister, and two of my other friends — but I am still not blocked. Why did he suddenly start stalking and watching me like this? We don’t even follow each other anymore, so he has to actively search for my profile to see my stories. And he still has a girlfriend, which makes it even stranger to me.
uhh idk
to sum it up me and my ex of two years recently reconciled after 170days of breaking up and it’s going differently and completely well.
Please let someone tell me what they think about this.
My first love broke up with me at the end of 2024 after almost a year together because he said he had lost his feelings. A week later he started talking to his current girlfriend. In the month after the breakup, he kept saying he wanted to get back together with me, but then he changed his mind. I suffered a lot. One of the last things he said to me was: “I’m sorry that I can’t love someone as perfect as you for longer” and “I wish I knew how to love the way you do.” My love for him was very deep. I know that the whole time he was lying to and manipulating both me and that girl, talking to both of us at the same time. A month after the breakup, he removed me from Instagram and TikTok. It hurt because I realized he chose her. I don’t want him after he touched another girl, so I blocked him on Facebook (and he’s still blocked to this day) to move on and so he wouldn’t have the chance to come back. Last summer he viewed my Instagram story even though he doesn’t follow me. A month later he also viewed my friend’s story. I wanted peace, so I made my account private so he wouldn’t watch my stories. A few months passed, and recently I made my account public again and posted a story. He viewed it suddenly after 20 minutes even though he still doesn’t follow me and is still in that relationship. The next day he viewed it again and didn’t even try to hide it. I don’t know if he was waiting for a reaction from me or what. Yesterday evening he blocked me, this morning he unblocked me, and shortly after that he blocked me again. I don’t understand what he wants or why he’s doing this. What do you think?
Exercise crashes app
I just talked to the developer and he said the fix was in the process of being approved by Apple, should be fixed in version 3.5.6 he said just thought I’d share!
over it.
he has a new girl 2 weeks after the breakup 😃
My struggles
I'm currently struggling with having no contact with my ex.... I've been trying to reach out to him but when I do he doesn't answer my texts or calls It's been a month since he broke up with me it's complicated but somehow I still want to go back with him in the future will 1 am hoping for....but lately ik and i understand that me and my ex aren't together anymore totally understand..i can't to talk to my ex anymore cuz he practically told my mom that he doesn't want to see my face or anything to do with me anymore...and that he changed the lock of his house so I couldn't go back to his house he let me keep the key to his house and it's sad bcuz he told me that it was fine if I left afew things for mine to keep something there and I had a goal in mind to go back at some point in future but packed my things in a box for me meaning he lied about it but I’m still in love with him that this breakup has gotten my health bad not wanting to eat cuz it makes me throw up and depression stress and anxiety I get too that I wished he knew what he had done to me but doesn’t even answer my calls texts or anything blocked me mostly everywhere I had him on so yea idk what to do at this point my family against me telling me am stupid blame me from my disability and I’m good at nothing my family are stopping me from moving on like shutting the doors for me like wanting to drive that’s my main goal but they don’t want to idk why
Process of divorce
My ex husband serve me on our son birthday in front of my son. I feel like I am a failure not able to keep a family for him. Just disappointed but not surprised I just wish I was loved. But I guess it’s better things end.
Forbidden love
Our relationship were forbidden. I’m his student, he’s married. I knew that. Just before our breakup he told he had a daughter with his wife. Later his wife found out about me after checking his phone. Soon after that he told me he wouldn’t be able to leave his family. They decided to give their marriage a second chance. Now they’re together, but I’m all alone after all he said and did. After everything that was between us. I’m an awful person. But I love him so much.
Support please
We broke ip, i was secret. I gave him support while he was divorcing because we were friends but we fell in love. I gave him support my time and even worked for him because i wanted him to have profit as much as possible and i was very good at selling. I even put on the second plan my work, life everything. I gave everything. He decide to come back to his wife. I accepted to be no.2 even though it is painful just because it is so hard without him. He told me he will cut the contact because it is good for both. I called him to today and he still is with his decision. I am devastated. I am very successful at my job, look very attractive but i want him. I want to get over him, and survive
To My First Love… (a poem)
I hate that you made me love you. I hate that you said you loved me too. I hate that I believed it— That silly little lie. Well… now it’s over. And I can’t seem to forget. Forget your kisses, And arms that made me feel safe. Safe… until you started to let go. You always denied it. Always said it wasn’t true. But then why did you sleep peacefully While I was crying so much that it hurt? Pain. That seemed to be a constant theme. I cared more about you than I cared about myself. And it drained me— every single day. Staying up all night just to make sure you got home safe. But you couldn’t stay awake long enough to say goodnight. Calling you because I missed your voice. Just for you to hang up without a word. Counting down the minutes until it was finally your birthday. Well I guess you forgot the day starts at twelve, because it took you until one to remember mine. Spending hours picking out the perfect gift. I’m still waiting for mine… Posting you for everyone to see. Well I don’t think you liked that very much. You told me to take it down. Calling other girls fine and baddies. Then calling me crazy when I spoke up. But of course you were just joking. It was just your humor. But you know what else is funny? The fact that after everything you put me through… You still claimed that you cared. Baby… you don’t know what caring is. And now I’m over here looking stupid. Because I wanted to believe every lie you told me. Every lie that made me feel like I meant something to you. I didn’t. Because now, One week after going our separate ways, You found another girl. Maybe one. Maybe two. Maybe three. But you seem to be doing pretty well. You seem to be getting all of that female affirmation, That you so desperately needed while we were together. So congratulations. You broke the one girl that loved you more than anything. And now… you get to break another. I wish I could say I’m over you. Just like I know you’re over me. But I’m not. Everything reminds me of you. And I can’t help but wonder if you ever miss me. Miss the way we laughed. The way we held each other like nothing else mattered. The way we understood each other. Unfortunately… I understood you too well. I understood that you’d never love me as much as I love you. Your pride, your ego— They’ll get in the way Of ever finding a healthy relationship. So unless you’re finally ready to grow up and commit… I have to let you go. Because if I don’t, I will never find that healthy love that I had to leave you for. Not because I don’t love you. I do. I really do. And I always will. But I deserve to be loved too. I deserve to get all of those things that I gave you. I gave you so much, and I don’t think you realize that yet. One day you will. But by then, I’ll already be gone. And you’ll sit with the thought that you might never find someone like me ever again. And honestly… you might not. But that won’t be my problem anymore. I hate that you made me love you. I hate that I still do. And I hate that I could never hate you. Not even a little bit. Not even at all. But even if I never hate you, I will find a way to love me too.
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