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Still confused
We were together for 3+ years. I just don’t resent the breakup, neither the time i spent with him. It’s the fact THAT I PUT HIM BEFORE MYSELF!!!! And he left me alone last night while i was crying and having a very rough night myself, and it just didn’t work out. You don’t expect it from someone you’ve been together with so long. I don’t care if he tries to come back or whatever i just want to make myself stronger, so i know that i will not let these things happen ever again to me by him or anybody else ! Things fall apart because of both people in the relationship so i accept the things i did too. Yea that’s just abiut it. If you read this, hope you have good day, and you reach out to somebody or somewhere even if posting on this app works. Bye☺️
How
How do u stop this, physically painful. I got up and took a shower put some makeup on and went to work. It is going well and I am sucssesfull. But how real thisener gy is. It’s like boba I called it boba. Pain in my chest that is not shaming a heart attack . Boba can come surprised even if you woke up to a beautiful day . Boba knows he shouldn’t be there and once under control boba IS GONE very is there any trick. and it can ruined your day if boba comes strong if he decides to come full power that will be a f ull on screaming crying day why doo this to ourselves when we can just live . And enjoy the sun. I have nothing missing I am incredibly at my job. I am about to buy my first house , I am beautiful and smart and so unique what is thumbs I’m a pretty girl , and pretty girls are never lonkey. Said Gabrielle solid to her husband in the real housewif So why do I feel alone? Am I just feeling sorry for myself I know my husband will make an entrance , he is just waiting for it to be so special it will be told for gen to come , he is so romantic loving keeps you safe and honest that any woman heart will melt but he only wants mine My husband adores me. He will make my biggest dream comectrues and get me house and choke s, yard and a wheasty and 4 kids that are so beautiful smart curious each other and funny He will do all of that.
Peac
Good-morning breakup buddies I want to start by thanking the firsts peoples and acknowledge I’m living respectfully on the unceded land of the Dharug People: the traditional custodians of the land belonging to the Eora Nation Firstly I want to acknowledge how painful and heartbreaking these times are. And compounded by a world this is baring the brunt of hate. Well done us for being a part of a community that is feeling the pain, the crying of humanity and all that is wrong. I hear you all, I feel you, I connect with you, and we can walk this path holding energy and universal hands 🙌 as it is our power through connection, that will hold up against this wall we are trying to climb over. We are what we surround ourselves with. I am 64 and have been growing through that lesson all my life. We shed those that do not hold the energy we give as the precious gift it is. If we do not, there energy field will start to erode ours, and even, sometimes, creep in and blur our beliefs our politics our essence . So it is so important to find like, and hold there like, as this beautiful power, is the essence of our existence. I am also shedding a human that has travelled with me for 26 years. Someone I thought would be with me for life, but we no longer hold each other as we should, and that’s painful and lonely and scary. But sometimes it is in these moments of loneliness, sadness and pain, that we see a glimpse of ourselves we need to get to know. I can hold your hand universally, for this moment, I can share your pain and reflect on how we move forward. “Yes, some goodbyes can be painful beyond words. But they are also transformative. They challenge us to let go, to grow, and to find strength in the silence. And in doing so, they reveal the quiet beauty of our own resilience—a beauty that no unanswered question or unresolved farewell can ever take away” (author unknown)
Group me
Hi everyone. I just got out of a 2 year relationship. We lived together for 2 years as well and shared 2 cats and a dog. The last few months have been super toxic and unhealthy I can’t help to wonder if he’s talking bad about me. I also feel bad for all the pain I put him through. I made a groupchat on GroupMe so we can get together and talk. I need someone to talk to. Here’s the link if anyone would like to join https://groupme.com/join_group/106748972/KmRfFkGh
I still love him though
I have been talking to this boy for over 15 months and I will say everything happened fast. After a while I got attached to him and began tolerating and forgiving a lot of his bad character. He apologizes always (repeats the same thing over again) and, for a while now I have known that he is in a relationship with another girl I know, like and respect a lot. I can’t take it anymore and, I’m ready to let go of him. He brings more uncertainty to me than peace, and although he can be nice and kind I don’t feel loved by him, not respected, I don’t admire how he chooses to live his life generally and instead of waiting for him to change and I’m ready to let him go to allow myself be loved by myself and by someone else who sees me as “enough “. Day 1 of letting go of what’s not mine.
Fitness Buddy after breakup
Hey guys, I know it's a bit of a long shot but I was wondering if anyone would like to be a distance fitness buddy lol l am in Australia on a cattle station and have just ended my engagement as my ex cheated, he made many comments about my body so in the words of Khloe Kardashian I am on the journey of the REVENGE body also for me as well but I am about 65kg and looking at starting running and YouTube video workouts if anyone wanted to start and help each other with motivation, thanks in advanced 😘
finally left my emotion abuser for good
i finally left my emotionally abusive boyfriend i knew for 6 months a very intense 6 months. i loved him with my whole heart. but without change. i can’t be with someone like that. i don’t even need to put up with abuse regardless. i was minimised, name called, gaslight, manipulated, mind games, given the silent treatment, emotionally abandoned, shouted at the list goes on… having a traumatic childhood. you get attached to these people as it’s the love you think you deserve and have been deprived of. i am here to tell anyone who is going through this. you are loved, believed and you deserve so much better than this person. it has nothing to do with you all to do with them. there is the future you waiting but you need to get to the other side and take that leap. never give up on your right to freedom. it’s a long healing road but so worth it. ❤️🔥
Wellbeing
I am good enough
For anyone who needs a bit of comfort during their heartbreak right now 💛
I’ve been having a hard time through my heartbreak right now and I saw this on my tik tok fyp and idk this video just felt like a good reminder especially during the hardest days to be kind to ourselves. We are all worthy of love especially from ourselves 💛 This video felt like a warm hug to me so I hope it’ll do the same for you guys :)
for anyone with an insecure attachment style or codependent tendencies
i HIGHLY recommend journaling- especially shadow work. i did a shadow work meditation last night and came out of it with tears streaming down my face. i have an anxious attachment style and talking to the suppressed, wounded part of myself from both the break-up and my past was such a self-discovery and transformative experience. Here's the book I got the meditation from: The Shadow Work Journal (New, Expanded Edition) For anyone struggling with being left by the person they loved most, i hear you. I promise that the earliest stages are the hardest but it gets better. But you shouldn't need someone, you should WANT them. The only person you truly need is you. If you let yourself shut down for someone who has shown they don't want you anymore, you're abandoning the person you actually need: YOU. I know the statement "they don't want you anymore" is a tough pill to swallow, but imagine what it'll feel like to love the person who always aants you and sees your worth? Amazing. Hold out for you and for them. The people who will stay end up there through your highs, lows, no matter what distance. But you must become the best you and love yourself before loving another. You cannot love another in a healthy way if you do not love yourself in a healthy way.
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