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Broken up after 8 years.
Partner just split up with me after 8 long years. I feel so heartbroken and lost. I am struggling to eat, sleep or even think straight. I cannot focus on anything and struggle to stop myself looking at previous messages when we were okay. It was so sudden and I actually haven’t been given a reason why apart from the fact she just wanted to live back with her mother. A small part of me believes the mother has had a slight hand to play in this as we haven’t always seen eye to eye and I am worried my partner feels like she is trapped or cannot say anything to her mother. I don’t know if that is just me trying to make myself feel better but I cannot think straight right now. We had so many good times a lot more than bad and only 2 weeks ago we were talking about engagement. The reason it hasn’t happened before now is purely financial. We were also discussing children 2 weeks ago so it seems strange to me that this has happened now. I don’t know what to expect from here but I don’t have anyone else to talk or vent too.
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we broke up like nearly 2 weeks ago now.. i messaged him on the 15th checking up on him and he aired the message then i had to message again to see about this concert i booked for us to go to has a birthday present for him.. he replied but he was quite unemotional then i told him im just going to sell them and then i said i didnt want this to end but i wish you well etc and he said the same thing he didnt want it to end but it was the best for the both of us cause we wasn’t working.. but yet hes the one who walked away! hes still has me added on everything and even has his location on .. he didnt even fight for what we had.. i dont want this to be over for good.. but am i just being silly..
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He broke no contact
After 15 days of no contact. He sent me a message with a random sticker at 3am… what does it mean? 15 days ago he said to me that he would not have spoken to me anymore and that he’s done with me and he said “i said that i don’t want to talk with you when you said that we can’t be friends, but i wanted to check if you’re alive”
233 days..
7 months since he broke up with me (he was a narcissist, and an emotional abuser). But Time really flies. I thought I was never gonna survive that breakup, I begged, I cried, I did everything possible so he can stay, I wonder today how could I do that to myself? I still get these emotional waves and anger moments. I hold so much anger for letting someone treat me miserable, for letting him make me feel so little. I am struggling today to manage that anger, because our2.5 year relationship ended in a very chaotic situation. He ended it THROUGH TEXT??!! I got no chance to defend or say anything, I just had to deal with it and force myself to block him immediately because of how much abuse I took during our last conversation. I really beed help with this anger, what do I do?? Please share tips to help me 🙏🏻🤍
Horrible evenings.
IThe evenings are the hardest, I can’t sleep because of the loneliness, memories and heavy heart with sadness, getting myself crying every single night asking the same questions to myself like “ how can he say he loved me and treated me so good but avoid me as if I didn’t matter to him, I overthink and get so anxious, angry and annoyed and eventually just lay in bed cries just because of the idea of my lovey is not laying next to me and my thoughts just go crazy. He didn’t choose me because I pushed alot of pressure on him for him to succeed and help me provide in the house and fights or stand up for me when he’s family was say very rude and hurtful things to me or about me. He already moved on like was I this easy to forget, because he rather choose a girl he knows for 2 weeks than coming back by and communicate (this was a problem/ jealousy) I miss him so much. Please advise me because I can’t be sad and angry everyday I feel so miserable and lost and could he reLly just move forward and hurt me lijw this
can’t feel any anger
he’s dating someone else 1 week after the breakup, blocked me everywhere, said all his love was all a lie and yet i can’t feel angry… i just want him back i can’t explain what’s wrong with me but i just want to be with him..
Forever isn’t always forever
My ex and I were together for over two years. He broke up with me because of poor communication. I explained that I didn’t grow up in a home with good communication skills, and even though I was trying my best, it wasn’t enough for him. At one point, he told me there was still hope we could get back together, and I clung to that hope. But recently, he broke my heart even more. He said he’s done for good and that he couldn’t trust me anymore. I asked him if he was talking to someone or in a relationship. At first, he didn’t want to answer, but I pressed him, and he finally admitted that he is talking to someone. He told me I should move on and forget about him, which felt confusing because just two weeks ago we spoke about trying again. He said he didn’t want the other person to feel like they were in any kind of competition. He ended our conversation by saying he doesn’t care what I do and that I should move on if I can. I am now in a depressed state with no one to speak to or hear me out.😪
He announced his new girlfriend the same day of our breakup
But the most hurtful part that everything in our relationship was good and i was deeply in love with him and i was really so happy with him until he ghosted me for a day and the next day he posted on instagram about his new girlfriend without confessing to me first 😂
over it.
he has a new girl 2 weeks after the breakup 😃
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