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alone
i have this feeling that my life is not complete without them i fee really alone. dis anyone got some advice for me? he was my first boyfriend and we were together for 1 year. he broke up with me because he wanted to be “alone” again and needed space. He did tell me we could maybe be together later but idk.
Divorce.
I never thought I’d have to accept the fact that it was over.I loved her with everything I could and I just simply wasn’t enough.She was everything I ever wanted,Everything I lived for,Everything I prayed for.The first days since have been very hard.My heart is hurting in a way I don’t ever think I’ll get over.I just want to stop the pain.
It’s never the end
He ended things with me yet he still texts me first and rings me which always leads to an argument. He also keeps coming up with many different reasons why we broke up it’s currently at 4 excuses. And now he’s blaming it on me and that i didn’t up enough effort in which has obviously made my mind go crazy and overthink. If i went to just one of his football matches would we still be together?
i can’t do this anymore
i miss them so much. it hurts so much more without them then it ever did with them. how do i get over this
My struggles
I'm currently struggling with having no contact with my ex.... I've been trying to reach out to him but when I do he doesn't answer my texts or calls It's been a month since he broke up with me it's complicated but somehow I still want to go back with him in the future will 1 am hoping for....but lately ik and i understand that me and my ex aren't together anymore totally understand..i can't to talk to my ex anymore cuz he practically told my mom that he doesn't want to see my face or anything to do with me anymore...and that he changed the lock of his house so I couldn't go back to his house he let me keep the key to his house and it's sad bcuz he told me that it was fine if I left afew things for mine to keep something there and I had a goal in mind to go back at some point in future but packed my things in a box for me meaning he lied about it but I’m still in love with him that this breakup has gotten my health bad not wanting to eat cuz it makes me throw up and depression stress and anxiety I get too that I wished he knew what he had done to me but doesn’t even answer my calls texts or anything blocked me mostly everywhere I had him on so yea idk what to do at this point my family against me telling me am stupid blame me from my disability and I’m good at nothing my family are stopping me from moving on like shutting the doors for me like wanting to drive that’s my main goal but they don’t want to idk why
we lost the spark
Can someone help me please!? ( and sorry about my English its not that good) So like a week ago i kinda broke up with him because i just didn’t feel that spark anymore, he was really dry, he didn’t send me no more love letters, like all that. but when i did broke up with him, i just texted him the same night, because i was crying, i was feeling so sick, i was thinking what will i do without him, like i know that im gonna get over it in like 6 months but think about it, 6 months without the person you loved so much and he was the only friend to you too. like how can i get over him or get some type of ick that i just don’t feel anything? my body is already over it but my brain just can’t move on. please girlies help mee, give me your tipss, how you got over someone?
Huh
This is the first time in a couple days where I thought about him like I briefly thought about him or mentioned him to people on the dating app that I’m on because they’ve asked me about past relationships but right now I’m thinking about him and our memories I wish I didn’t and the way it did, but I know I can’t be a part of that life. That’s not the life. I deserve. That’s not how I deserve to be treated and now there is sometimes you treated me good And I know he cared, but I cannot accept that type of love. I’m not going to accept it anymore the love that comes with constant criticism, condescension the love that comes with excuses and lies. I can’t take it anymore. I wanna get rid of our things, but at the same time I don’t I don’t have the strength to look at old pictures yet because every time I do I just freeze. I was so in love in those photos. What did I do? What did I do?
Crazy life
Just marveling at how you think something can be stable and then it’s just ripped away with no notice. Tell people you love them and appreciate them, you never know when they might pass on from your life. Cherish the time.
Guilt
I feel guilty, I downloaded hinge knowing I still love my ex but it’s been 5 months and I’m kinda enjoying it? It’s talking to people.. I’m also emotionally bc I’m back in my home town for a couple of days and all of the memories I have with him are tormenting me.. idk what to do…
Process of divorce
My ex husband serve me on our son birthday in front of my son. I feel like I am a failure not able to keep a family for him. Just disappointed but not surprised I just wish I was loved. But I guess it’s better things end.
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