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bluemuscleax
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I miss him

I was seeing someone not long but in a short time became my person I was excited to talk to everyday. He said he loved me and I loved him. We became each other’s safe space, where we loved the way we made each other feel physically and mentally. He said he has a lot going on in his life and that I deserve better but I wanna continue to love him through the tough times but he won’t let me. Im scared he won’t come back to me or I’ll never be able to move on or that I won’t find this kind of love again. It’s only been 2 weeks and i feel like my world has been turn upside down

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droopymilkb

Same thing happened to me but he loved bombed me in the beginning. I told him to slow things down. We did but then the pace started going back up I thought I could trust him and I let down my walls and then he freaked out and asked to slow down. He kept distancing himself more and more eventually I couldn’t do it anymore I was crying and anxious every night with all of his missed signals. We kept assuming things and accidentally hurting eachother. So I ended up ending things for my mental health. I wish he didn’t get scared. I was all in on him, I was never going to hurt him. I wanted him to let me love him as well.

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droopymilkb

My advice would be to take this time to grow within yourself. It’s so hard. I’m struggling bad. But I really want to learn to feel confident in myself so I never let a man hurt me like this again.

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