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no words can describe what im feeling right now. im slowly going insane and i still seek your comfort even though i am this way because of you. it seriously hurts i miss you like crazy. i hope things will go back to how they were.

Wrecked

We were together 4.5 years, got married and 3 months later he wants to get annulled. I’m a wreck came out of nowhere. Now wants to date other people and remain friends

Help

I am going to make this short and simple. I miss him so much. Ages ago he told me that he just went out with his friends to the park and he saw this girl but he claimed that she was “drunk” and she was trying to hit on one his friend’s but she left afterwards. I didn’t believe him since before we started dating, he used to text other girls whilst we were still texting, but then he did change later on, so I’ll give him that. Later that week when he came to mine, I was getting suspicious as he wasn’t being his usual self, so when he went to help my dad out with some things, I went through his phone. We basically are allowed to go through each others phones and we have each other’s passwords as-well so I was hoping I wouldn’t find anything. I went through the messages of him and his friends just to find out that the girl was hitting on him.I don’t know if he kissed her or not because in one of the texts he said “I should’ve kissed her back” but he was entertaining the conversation and told her his single. That was the end for me since I have high standards and don’t get with anyone that disrespects me even though I got with him? I don’t know what’s going on in my head right now since I have to see him in school everyday as-well and he does talk to me in school but it just hurts so bad because I know he still wants me but I don’t know how to feel.

it was a random tuesday. after a week of taking a break i reached out to him to break no contact. and he hit me with the news of wanting to break up. honestly its been some weeks since that day and it still replays in my head every second. i miss him so much and we still talk but i dont know wether i have to move on or not. he still checks up on me and asks me if ive eaten and things like that. and he said i could message him whenever i wanted and that hed still be here for me. i dont want to move on actually im still waiting for him but im not sure wether hes also waiting for me or if he moved on already. he looks so fine without me and its upsetting me ngl. i really miss him and the connection we had.

Need an objective view

Today, I decided to go no contact with my ex fiancé. I seriously thought this guy was my soulmate. I have never felt so emotionally connected with somebody, but the relationship was so toxic towards the end. We were in a long distance relationship, I was in Illinois and he was in Tennessee. We’ve been together for four years and we’re basically engaged and started to plan our wedding for winter next year. when he came to visit me a few weeks ago, I found proof that he had downloaded dating apps at some point and paid for premium. He did not have any messages in these apps and said that he would just download it and delete as soon as he downloaded them because he felt so guilty. He would download it after big fights. He stated that he felt he used the likes from these apps for validation because he never felt appreciated.i have anger issues in the relationship, and we used to fight about things like him not giving me enough time or attention, him calling or smoking when he had a health condition, etc. he’d never complain about me and later said he felt he never had the space to. I miss him a lot, so much. Idk if what I decided to do was the right thing.

Need advice

I love my ex so much, i tried everything to get over him and i mean literally everything, its hard to stop loving someone that you put your whole life into i gave this my relationship my everything, and he just left me like i was nothing for another girl. i started going to therapy because it was so traumatic for me we where gonna move in together and start a family talked about marriage just to wake up one day and leave me. If there is any advice on how to deal with this please help.

Need practical and genuine advice from men

So I was with this guy for more than a year almost 1.5 yrs. In between we broke up several times and it was sometimes from my side from his. We had almost everything in common so many things but or ways of seeing things was different. He has anger issues. I understand that. He has apologised about that several times. We both tried to make it work. It’s that we are in the same College and ofc we have to see each other everyday. For me small gestures matter he never paid attention to them. Yesterday it was something extremely big. We had to fill our forms related our studies. But night before that we had a fight because of something he had done. I still called him in the morning to wake him up but later I found out that he was already there. I asked him to atleast have informed me while I was calling him to be there. He said “why would I care about you?” I said nothing and left. I have blocked him. How do you make a man realise that he was at fault atleast?

First Love

A month ago my first true love broke up with me because he lost his feelings. We were together for almost a year. Throughout this month he wrote to me several times to try again, I wanted to, but he changed his mind after a while. Yesterday he wrote that he is already quite burned out. I don't know what to do, he was everything to me and I hoped we would spend our whole lives together. I still love him very much and he knows it. I don't want anyone else and I can't even imagine it. I really hope that one day we will find our way to each other and try again.

Help

Me and my husband have bin together for 13years and have 1 bio child together but we have always had a complicated situation because he cant stay out of trouble stays in and out of prison constantly this is his 3rd time but he’s now at a work release program where he’s aloud a real job and a phone and a-lot of freedom well he got there 2months ago and since he got there all he has done is accuse me of everything in the book every 2-3 mins non stop,making me show screenshots of everything i do calls,text,facebook messages just everything and it slowly just got worse never said anything nice to me…always mean and hateful he had the opportunity to go on home furlough ms here at our home but chose not to acted like it didn’t matter at all witch was weird and off cause cmon we could have done u know what and him spend time with the kids his kids but chose not to…well finally he dumps me 3 days ago trying to flip everything on me saying I’m the cheater I’m the one doing this and that,that i ruined our marriage and I’m not dumb i know he’s bin cheating this entire time and having woman come to his job to screw him well I’m heart broken trying so hard to push these feelings down,i want to scream and pull my hair out i feel so un worthy and omg just horrible i feel so ugly and un attractive gawd i need some advice badly please cause this ripped me into a billion pieces i just don’t understand where all this came from out of no where i also believe hes using drugs in the facility and maybe thats why hes acting crazy and idkno

I miss you J_ _

I don’t really understand why you no longer love me. I really miss you. I wish we could talk again but, well… I know it’ll never be a good idea to get back together. It was your decision to break up. I just hope you find happiness after all of this. I really miss you a lot. I know that someday someone will love me like I love you, but until then…. P.S. I fucking hate that I have to go through this.