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irritatingmeaning9
17mo ago
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First Love

A month ago my first true love broke up with me because he lost his feelings. We were together for almost a year. Throughout this month he wrote to me several times to try again, I wanted to, but he changed his mind after a while. Yesterday he wrote that he is already quite burned out. I don't know what to do, he was everything to me and I hoped we would spend our whole lives together. I still love him very much and he knows it. I don't want anyone else and I can't even imagine it. I really hope that one day we will find our way to each other and try again.

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Anonymous17mo ago

That’s a beautiful thought, and I remember feeling the same way after my first breakup

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irritatingmeaning917mo ago

how are you now? does it still hurt you? what can i do to feel better, i feel like im dying from the inside.

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Anonymous17mo ago

I know sweetie, I felt the same exact way. Like this perfect partnership that could have been my everything was ripped away and if I could just convince / make them see then we could go back to living this ideal life. A first love is so pure and innocent that it’s a shame it doesn’t workout but like 90% of relationships you’ll have, it won’t work out and you’ll learn from it and make better choices next time. I’m doing great now, the first relationship breakup doesn’t hurt anymore, but when I look back on it I realize that I did learn things from it. I learned that just because your body and soul is telling you that this person is perfect for you, to look at people’s actions instead. Here are some things I wish I did after my first breakup. Maybe they won’t help you but they have helped me since, talk with friends, make sure to eat enough, go running (without your phone) when you feel intrusive / spiraling thoughts, and be kind to yourself. Realize that you can’t control anyone else, only yourself. I really hope your thoughts and heart healing get better ❤️‍🩹

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irritatingmeaning917mo ago

Thank you very much❤️ I hope it will get better with time and I will somehow cope with it. All the best to you!!!

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Anonymous17mo ago

Thank you!! ♥️

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