I feel weak

It’s been 4 months post break up. I found out she’s been seeing other people and has slept with someone. I’m trying my hardest to move on but feel as if I won’t be able to do better. She’s very physically attractive, smart and has qualities any guy would want. I broke up with her way too many times to count and cheated. She gave up on me and now I feel like I’m unable to move on. My confidence/self esteem is low and I want to just get away from everything.

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sandyfix85qmphq18mo ago

This sounds hard. It’s very painful to see that someone has moved on quickly. But that is not a reflection of you or how much she cared about you. I think you need to be focusing on you at this time. Let yourself feel the pain, sit with the grief, take care of yourself. If you’re cheating and having on and off relationships like that, it sounds like you need to do work on you and figure out why you’re doing those things (if you want to change). Or figure out what in that relationship was leading to that behavior for you. Build up the other areas of your life. Things will get better. Wishing you the best.

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sandyfix85qmphq18mo ago

Also try to be kind to yourself. Hold yourself accountable for what you did wrong without berating yourself. Let it inform your choices in the future.

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tubbycookie18mo ago

Ofc it’s hard to see the other person move on while the other one can’t get over them. Give yourself spiritual healing. Give yourself that space to accept and acknowledge your feelings. Don’t put them aside and just not deal with them. Rather add more positivity to it. Try to rely on God first and then yourself. I hope it gets better for u

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