I am so attached that I can’t leave him and he taking me for granted He said if I want to leave he is not going to stop me . He said he want to explore new relationship I want to leave him so bad but I don’t know I am so sensitive that I start to cry
I completely get what you’re going through. I know how tough it is to let someone you love so much to but he’s not going to get better. Hes probably counting on you not going to feed his ego and he knows he can do whatever he wants and treat you whatever way because you love him so much. I know it’s hard and trust me if you need someone I’m here to talk but getting out of this will hurt but if you don’t do it ur going to loose more and more of urself to someone who takes you for granted. Once you leave I can promise he will regret it because in his mind he couldn’t have fathomed you actually doing it.
You've gotta gather the courage and do it if you know you're leaving. I know that's easier said than done. Ask yourself… is this relationship acceptable to me? A lot of clarity can come after leaving. You're fighting against your attachment system that wants you to stay, but you will survive without him.
Leave. He will probably chase you in the end and it might feel good, but he’ll only give you the upper hand for a bit then he’ll revert right back.
You might be trauma bonded to him. Make a break up plan and ask someone to help you follow through with it. Start making steps towards the breakup. Pay attention to your feelings around it. It does get better on the other side.
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