Mentally cheating? I need help

I'm in the process of taking a break from my boyfriend. It happened 2 weeks ago, I found out he used telegram to join the group and watch another girl's clip. Even the group mentioned video call, service. After I found out, I was very disappointed and sad. He watched during the time and day that I worked.I talked to him. Then I realized I was pregnant. During the argument, I chose to stop fighting. We decided to get an abortion pill. He swears that he never watch porn or another girl again and hurting me. But I found out again today, that he did watch when I went to work. I feel he's mentally cheating. What should I do?

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sandyfix85qmphq18mo ago

If you’re not okay with your partner watching any porn, then that’s okay. A lot of people aren’t comfortable with that. It’s likely the behavior won’t change if it’s been a pattern. You could try communicating about it clearly and set a boundary? But if he’s addicted and it really affects your mental health, I would consider leaving. You sound pretty unhappy. It sounds like trust has already been broken to me. But only you can decide.

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well-litlipg29t18mo ago

You should just let it go, everybody has secrets, and maybe you couldn’t change him , so accept him as he is, or just breek up if you cant stay with him any longer But dont forget that at the end of the day he chooses you

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