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Breakeup
I was building dreams with him and suddenly everything changed. He left me and let me down and now I am broken and very hurt. I cannot stop thinking about him. I cannot imagine myself without him. He loved me madly and could not stop talking to me. Suddenly everything changed. He disappears for hours and gives more than one excuse. My feeling tells me that he is lying. Sometimes he’s active and I send him messages and does not answer me until after a while Please, someone help me. I am very hurt. Someone help me. How do I get over this person? Frankly speaking, the reason for the breakup was that I posted pictures of his cousin on a fake account and impersonated her. I didn't intend to cause problems.
Summer break up
Me and my bf at the time got into a lot of arguments about things especially went we went to parties. He would always leave me wondering if I can trust him but that was jsut me overthinking scenarios. We both ruined the relationship from his lack of effort and communication and my anxious attachment. When he broke up with me he told me he’ll work on himself and will grow into our own selfs and then when college starts we could get back together when we’re ready. And we’ve been chatting a lot he still says he loves me but then distance himself too. I’m not sure if I should wait and trust him or move on…
breakup
me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up two days ago. we’ve been going through a rough spot but i love that man so much and i really had hope we were going to work it out. on our anniversary, we talked and i told him i wanted to fight for us and try to make it work but he said he just couldn’t and he can’t be what i need, especially when he goes to college. it just sucks. i didn’t want this. i don’t want this. i cant sleep, i have no appetite, my heart feels numb. it sucks. i just dont know how to get through this guys.
me and him
we were an perfect couple, but I started arguing so much about him not finding his time for me. He was working abroad and wanted to come back to our country, but in 2 days he made an decision to not coming back. He called me and said that he doesn’t see long distance relationship for next one or two years, he even texted my mom saying I should have someone who can give me 100% of their time, and he loves me so much, and I need to chase my dreams. I know its so damn difficult for us two, because it ended all of a sudden and im the first girl ever to met his family, he cried around me etc. We have a chance to talk in few weeks (what he said we can) Do you think we can come back together?
How can someone be so cruel and have no empathy?
My partner of 3 years cheated on me, after telling me time and time again “I am not like those other guys”, “I would never do that to you”, and “I’m too old for that shit, I want to start a family” (the girl he cheated with is younger than me!!) - he knew that both my previous relationships had ended the same way, with me being cheated on and knew how much it affected my mental health and self confidence, trust issues etc. I am genuinely stumped as to how he has sat there, hid things and lied to me for the past couple of months? I could never put someone through that.
Advice
What helps to get over an ex?
Sad and seeking advice
We broke up yesterday and I can’t get enough sleep tonight. Please help.
Us
We decided to break up yesterday at midnight because he doesnt want me to cry anymore, bother me anymore and overthink again. We still love each other ( ik this for pretty sure) we always argued but we awlays ended our argument by talking this through. I was the one who always brought up breaking up, and he was the one who kept holding on. This is our first break up and honestly i feel like we might get back together. What do you think?
I need advice
My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship”; I want to say it’s gotten better but I don’t know if I even believe it, I feel like he isn’t sad and doesn’t care. I’ve tried to text him he doesn’t answer; I haven’t texted him for 2 days though. Our relationship wasn’t perfect but when it was good it was good; he watched porn knowing how it made me feel, ignored my feelings, made me feel crazy for being anxious and he promised not to leave and still did. But we were each others first everything, i met his whole family and did everything with him I made as much effort as i could and i really believed we would last. I can’t let him come back but I feel like i’m fighting myself on this. how do i heal? how do i move on and get over this?
I think I should’ve left right at the start…
I’m sorry, I actually haven’t broken up with him. I can’t leave but I’m in pain and crying with him. But it’s so hard. I should leave. I cry because I should but idk if I need mental or psychological help- no matter how much he hurts me I still don’t ever go… but yes I know I should, and I complain and cry that he won’t change. Why can’t I leave. Someone help me get over him. I keep telling myself he’s a good person and he wouldn’t ignore me on purpose… wouldn’t talk to other girls… wouldn’t not care about me
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