We decided to break up yesterday at midnight because he doesnt want me to cry anymore, bother me anymore and overthink again. We still love each other ( ik this for pretty sure) we always argued but we awlays ended our argument by talking this through. I was the one who always brought up breaking up, and he was the one who kept holding on. This is our first break up and honestly i feel like we might get back together. What do you think?
from my experience, you more then likely will get back together. but that wouldn’t be a good thing; the overthinking gets worse and IF what you were worrried about in your relationship was breaking up; that won’t go away, it may actually get worse. before getting back into a relationship heal. work on yourself and your mental health then decide if you’re ready to go back. not only does constantly bringing up breakups destroy yourself, it destroys him especially if a breakup isn’t what he wants. focus on healing, go for a walk, read a book and don’t contact him; focus on moving on as if it were permanent. sending love your way ❤️
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