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freematerialaymm
9mo ago
Seeking Advice

breakup

me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up two days ago. we’ve been going through a rough spot but i love that man so much and i really had hope we were going to work it out. on our anniversary, we talked and i told him i wanted to fight for us and try to make it work but he said he just couldn’t and he can’t be what i need, especially when he goes to college. it just sucks. i didn’t want this. i don’t want this. i cant sleep, i have no appetite, my heart feels numb. it sucks. i just dont know how to get through this guys.

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luminouscashy2cy9mo ago

I understand the pain and it’s tough. Listen, you need to slowly start becoming self reliant, his presence is like a drug. Understand that if he wanted you enough, he would’ve tried until he couldn’t and honestly him breaking it off like that because of a rough patch and distance speaks more about his mental ability to handle things than your worth. You have to hold on to the hope that you will be happy again. Rewatch and relearn all the things that made you happy as a kid or before him. It really really helps. You survived before him once, you can do it again. If you have any specific questions just ask.

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B-Rad 9mo ago

Time is the only thing that truly heals!

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