I need advice

My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship”; I want to say it’s gotten better but I don’t know if I even believe it, I feel like he isn’t sad and doesn’t care. I’ve tried to text him he doesn’t answer; I haven’t texted him for 2 days though. Our relationship wasn’t perfect but when it was good it was good; he watched porn knowing how it made me feel, ignored my feelings, made me feel crazy for being anxious and he promised not to leave and still did. But we were each others first everything, i met his whole family and did everything with him I made as much effort as i could and i really believed we would last. I can’t let him come back but I feel like i’m fighting myself on this. how do i heal? how do i move on and get over this?

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splendidholdzj0suv10mo ago

I don’t know how to heal. My breakup is a few days old and was very rough. From my understanding though porn is a substitute for love. They watch it thinking it’s love but it only leads to emptiness yet they can’t stop I guess. Some men don’t know how to remove the substitute of the porn and get the love so no matter how loving you are, they don’t know how to see that this is what they are lacking. I would say it’s important that the person of your affections is really able to feel the love you give and appreciate you and that it will be enough for him. That he will understand what you’re giving him is love.

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vivaciousprotection49mo ago

you’re exactly right, i know so many men struggle with addiction and unfortunately it’s just ruining their view on love. ;( it’s rough but it’s been over a week since our breakup and im doing amazing! i hope you’re going okay it hurts a lot but we just have to remember who they are missing out on 😌

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