Summer break up

Me and my bf at the time got into a lot of arguments about things especially went we went to parties. He would always leave me wondering if I can trust him but that was jsut me overthinking scenarios. We both ruined the relationship from his lack of effort and communication and my anxious attachment. When he broke up with me he told me he’ll work on himself and will grow into our own selfs and then when college starts we could get back together when we’re ready. And we’ve been chatting a lot he still says he loves me but then distance himself too. I’m not sure if I should wait and trust him or move on…

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Anonymous9mo ago

You should move on. Somebody who truly loves you would not have you second guessing like this. They would make it known. It’s better to just move on for now. If he comes back in the future and is serious about revisiting the relationship then sure, if you still love him and both of you have worked on the issues that caused the breakup, you guys can try to work on it again together. For now, it’s better to just focus on yourself and your future, whether or not he will be in it.

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