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Emotional abuse through 8months marriage
I have stepped into marriage way too quick.. we have known each other for 8months until we were married. Everything was so wonderful. There were some red flags but we were able to have open discussion about small misunderstandings. One month after marriage he started to be silent. Every approach of trying to understand why he went on “isolation mode” and silent treatment end up with him speaking to me very badly.. “shut up”, “fuck off” “you are the only problem in my life” “I don’t want to speak to you”. A lot of manipulation started happening. On top of that he started bailing on me when I expected his support. I filled for divorce. He said he agrees but he loves me and his heart is in millions pieces. I am confident I am doing myself a favor - I have been very empathetic, loving yet I started loosing myself in it. Divorce process started and I am dieing inside 😞
i don’t know what to do
it's so complicated, in our first month together he wrote to his ex that he still loved her and he told me that himself, now we've been together for almost 3 months but we argue every day. I think we both love each other but our love languages are different and he doesn't try to understand me. We‘ve got into a big fight and we didn’t write each other since 2 days ago
Got dumped -ish
I left my ex because he was so up and down. One day he was like I want to marry you, you are the best then the next day when things went bad he had doubts. And we would break up and get back. He said he lost sexual attraction and he has been looking at other girls. And he hates himself for it, but can’t help it. And I feel stupid for still wanting him, can someone just take my phone away and help me get over him and move on. Our relationship is so toxic and we both disrespect each other. I hate it and I hate myself for wanting it still…
Do the cheater get a second chance
Even after being guilty taking accountability begging for forgiveness and showing all the efforts in the world to keep the love and the partner also the relationship alive. ( the cheating only happened once and with an ex that she kept chasing him over and over)
Cheated on me and bashed me to another women who’s older then me
I was in a long distance relationship with this guy but he hooked up with a older women at the delay in Vegas and they both flew out to they city Dallas and hooked up and starting treating me wrong all because he came across something new I’m so hurt y’all I’m sick to my stomach he lied to my face and made me feel like I was crazy when I was right about him cheating the whole time
Missing Him
I’d been feeling better and more confident in moving forward and focusing on myself until our brief interaction about business. He slipped in a message about how he apologized for everything and that he cared about me and wanted to see me doing well no matter what. He made it clear he wasn’t trying to fix anything but just wanted me to know. I don’t respond to it and kept it about business. Deep down I wanted to put it all on the table and share what I was feeling but decided not to. But deep down I miss him and no matter what I do, I still feel this connection that won’t seem to go away.
Got played
I fell in love with this girl just to find out she was playing other dudes when u was telling me she loved me. My heart is cold now
Do I need to block his email iMessaging me too?
Removed all potential triggers and blocked on all social platforms. I deleted his phone number that I don’t have memorized so I don’t reach out, but he is still able to iMessage me via his email. His email is pretty easy (just his name) so I don’t really see the point in blocking it? I’ve had pretty good self restraint not to respond so far. Is it dumb to not block his email? I do find it comforting to have some sort of line of contact still open in case of an emergency.
Was broken up with.
I was broken up with on 12/05/24. He broke up with me the cruelest way possible. Over text. That day he was upset because I kept asking why he didn’t like me taking pictures of him when we were together he didn’t answer at first. Finally he told me but he said for me to promise him these 3 things. 1. Was to move on from him 2. Forget him. And that the more he was getting further away from me the more he was falling in love. 3. He didn’t want me to go over to his house he didn’t want to see me cry. And to be honest this has been the worst breakup I have ever had. Feel free to comment on this post. Comfort is welcome.
Sad
He left last night today I’m packing and moving out feel out of my body don’t know what to do don’t have anyone for support leaving an 8 year relationship
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