I was in a long distance relationship with this guy but he hooked up with a older women at the delay in Vegas and they both flew out to they city Dallas and hooked up and starting treating me wrong all because he came across something new I’m so hurt y’all I’m sick to my stomach he lied to my face and made me feel like I was crazy when I was right about him cheating the whole time
Something similar happened to me. It’s sickening. It takes a high level of manipulation and compartmentalization to be able to go on a trip with someone else when you are in a committed relationship. This person may have low empathy for others and struggle with narcissistic traits. Which is something they need to figure out on their own. But it is sooo painful and traumatic to find out something like this. The book Leave a cheater gain a life and chump lady’s blog helped me a lot to understand cheaters and see the signs of manipulation. It’s not your fault. Remember your standards. Go no contact—- including not checking their social media. The pain will go away eventually.
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