Emotional abuse through 8months marriage

I have stepped into marriage way too quick.. we have known each other for 8months until we were married. Everything was so wonderful. There were some red flags but we were able to have open discussion about small misunderstandings. One month after marriage he started to be silent. Every approach of trying to understand why he went on “isolation mode” and silent treatment end up with him speaking to me very badly.. “shut up”, “fuck off” “you are the only problem in my life” “I don’t want to speak to you”. A lot of manipulation started happening. On top of that he started bailing on me when I expected his support. I filled for divorce. He said he agrees but he loves me and his heart is in millions pieces. I am confident I am doing myself a favor - I have been very empathetic, loving yet I started loosing myself in it. Divorce process started and I am dieing inside 😞