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I got ghosted randomly after 8 months of long distance

I came to our beach condo and he lived 20 mins away. We have been a thing for over 8 months I went offshore fishing sent him pictures that day and had normal conversations until that evening all of a sudden he went ghost. I don’t know what to do I’m so heart broken.

they lied

i found their porn history and they lied about it and i realized theyd been lying to me. they told me they would stop watching porn while i rebuilt trust. that was two years ago. yesterday they told me they never stopped and theyve been lying to me since. they watched me cry so many times and reassured me they werent watching porn. i need to leave dnt i?

A lesson

This is the only guy i feel connected to he is perfect in my mind everything goes so well we talk everday and everything but eventually we have to stop for a reason bc of complicated things and honestly it’s hurt me so much i miss him alot but i understand why he did that and i will have to move on but its so freaking hard

I need helppp

Okay so me and my ex both met during the summer for band and clicked instantly. When we started dating, I had no worries and he made me feel so loved everyday. But then my grandfather passed away which took an emotional toll over me and it kinda affected our dynamic since I wouldn’t talk as much. I said we should take a break and we promised each other to find our way back, but two weeks after, a girl that knew and encouraged our relationship backed all friendly and wanted to be soooo close with him and more. She invited him to chill at her hotel and when he told me, I know we were on break so I couldn’t be super bothered, but I was upset so I started talking about him in a manner that was rude and I have apologized for it, they’re now dating and I considered the girl a friend as well so it’s like ughhh mentally draining. But, he said he believes in second chances and I feel like we could start again in the future. I don’t wanna seem crazy but I will wait on him. Should I wait and see what happens or something else idk?

How can I ever trust someone again?

She went off birth control on purpose and got pregnant. I ended up coming around and wanting to go through with it. We talked names, and I got a ring to propose to her. She decided she didn’t actually want it and aborted it. I was so against that, it felt wrong to do. We ended up fighting over it, and it got to the point where she started to physically hitting me. I had to end the relationship but I miss her so much

First Week

How could a guy tell me that he cares so deeply about me and that us ending is an unfortunate situation. We decided to go no contact yesterday as it wasn’t healthy for either of us. Saying goodbye and we wish eachother the best. One of my friends just told me he’s already on dating apps planning dates with people. Like did he even care at all and how did he already move on?

give up or keep trying

First day

Broke up today. We were together for three years coming right out of High School and I loved her so much. Long distance, but we talked everyday, played games together, and watched shows/movies on FaceTime. She came to visit this last weekend and it didn’t feel right. It was a little awkward at times and we weren’t talking as much as we usually would. We still enjoyed each other’s company and had fun but today was so different. Little talking, and constantly staring off thinking and a familiar giant pit hung in my stomach. I could tell she felt what I was feeling too. We grew apart into different people slowly, which wasn’t necessarily a bad thing. Her future path was different from mine and she didn’t want to waste my time if she couldn’t fully commit to us. She was going to optometry school and I was still finishing an engineering degree. We would only get farther away. I said “this seems like something we cannot fix” and we agreed to cut it off (hardest thing i have ever had to say). We talked for an hour, cried,held each other, made jokes and talked about what life would be like without each other. Eventually we said “I love you” hugged, and kissed for the last time. She left, texted me when she made it back and that is that. I wish I could be mad at her, but this is supposed to be the best for both of us. I just want to see her texts messages again, and hear her voice again. Scared to go to sleep tonight because I will dream of her and wake up to absolutely nothing. I miss her.

364 days

it’s been 364 days and i still miss him,i never say it to anyone because it feels so stupid why can’t i forget abt a stupid boy we literally dated in middle school for a year and then we were on and off. i’m pretty sure we met when i was 12 I’m abt to be 15 in June and i can’t forget about him. the first time we broke up i was actually heart broken sounds stupid to say as someone so young but it hurt bad, and after that i’m different i just don’t care as much about things he was my first boyfriend ever and i haven’t dated anyone since i just don’t care anymore and i don’t find i trust in even having a stupid high school crush. The hard part for me rn is that we always go no contact wtv but he always breaks it i know he does so i got used to it but this time he isn’t breaking it last time we talked was in December and i remember i was the one who coasted him again cus i remember all the bad parts of our relationship. It hurts cus there’s no way in hell imma reach out and i know I’m young and have so much going for me but idk i just want him to get me again but also i feel bad because i’ve changed i genuinely don’t care about abt most stuff i used to be crazy abt he thought it was a act at first of me being yk showing him how he hurt me but nope that’s just how i am no w. Now that im a little older i see that i was a bad girlfriend to we were both bad but can u blame us we were kids. So idk its not like i cry at night for him and yea i guess I’m happy but idk in the back of my mind i secretly pray that he’ll text me again because besides everything unfortunately he’s my comfort person and not having that is yk not the best. but i still wish him the best and i have so much love for him mabye when we’re older i can start loving him again.

Ex destroying my stuff

I broke up with my ex a week ago and she posted on her friends story a video of her destroying the stuff I gave her and now she is demanding that I give her back her hoodies, but I don’t want to because she destroyed my stuff, if I was to give them back I would have my cat piss on them or pour acrylic paint on them to ruin them, and now idk what to do