i found their porn history and they lied about it and i realized theyd been lying to me. they told me they would stop watching porn while i rebuilt trust. that was two years ago. yesterday they told me they never stopped and theyve been lying to me since. they watched me cry so many times and reassured me they werent watching porn. i need to leave dnt i?
I had this problem too, it is still hurtful and considered cheating because it will affect his image of you if it hasn’t already. Nothing I did became enough for my partner. And the more I tried to please him the more exploited me n saw me as an object of pleasure. After I found the porn it all made sense
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I think you should leave my boyfriend had the same problem and I stayed I ended up resenting him for it so I cheated on him with a girl and he then broke up with me. I told him how he could do that if I stayed through his porn use and he said it wasn’t the same. To me both are equally cheating.
I don't think they will ever stop watching porn!!! Atleart it's better than cheating
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