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she’s gone
we ended on bad terms but we spoke and ended on good terms and we said to be friends in november or xmas and i can’t get over the fact it’s over i love her so much i need her and its no contact for now
I miss him!
It’s been 80 days of our breakup and i guess 3 days of non speaking. We decided to not be in contact but we kept on breaking it. I don’t want to break it this time around but i miss him so much 😭. He broke things with me after he found out i had a one night stand( had oral sex with someone). He healed while i thought we’re fixing things and in the end he broke things when i thought we’re doing okay! He moved on and i wish he’s been treated better there but i want him, i need him, he’s the only thing i think about 😭. My soul yearns for him, i regret my actions so much. I ruined a good things going, we could be doing much better now. I know i’m in no position to be crying as it’s my own actions that got us here, but i need him to forgive and come back. Even if things don’t go well in the beginning , i’m willing to start over gaining his trust and love. I have learned my lesson.
Love with a Psychopath
Has anyone experienced falling inlove with a manipulative, selfish, psychopath?
Do men come back? Or regret breaking up?
Been almost 80 days of break up, i wonder everyday if he will ever text me again? He is the dumper. He stayed with me for 2.5 years and at the end told me he was never happy with me. It was shocking, he didn’t even apologize for the hurt he caused and blamed me for everything. He was hesitant about the break up though and told me he’s afraid to regret his decision. I still wonder if he will ever regret this and come back? I blocked him two months ago, but am hurting for everyday. I miss him, but also hate him, but want him to message me 😩 will he ever come back?
Toxic af
I met this guy over a year and a half ago, charming, sweet, literally everything I had wanted in a man. But he kept us from social media which didn’t bother me, I’m not a big user but turns out it was because he had a girlfriend. Now this guy not only lied about her, he admitted to using her for his own selfish gain. I only found all this out when I told him I was pregnant, he then confessed and also confessed to sleeping with other girls too, but these girls knew he had a partner. He went from planning our future, planning our family to telling me he didn’t love me but wanted me to have a baby. Like no, I wanted a family and you’ve ruined my perception of love and relationships and ruined my hopes of a family. How do I honestly move forward from this?
I’m hurting
I messed up my relationship by cheating. She gave me chance after chance and I still messed up. Now I’m regretting everything I have done to her. She said she rather be friends and that she still love me but she don’t see no relationship anymore. I don’t eabt to be friends what should I do?
It really hurts
I don’t know if he was abusive or not but it sure felt like it sometimes. I even got a book about how to tell the difference between emotional abuse and a normal relationship. I can relate to the book quite a bit but I’m still confused. My mind is full of moment he belittled me and they cross my mind here and there and it hurts when they do
I miss him
He texted me few days ago and when i texted back he didn’t even read the message. I feel angry and worried at the same time Shall i text him? He’s the dumper tho
Day 74
Day 74 post-blocking an abuser I dated for 2.5 years. He left me first despite the many attempts I did to keep him. I realized a pattern in this relationship, anxious attachment? Or obsession over a harmful person and a toxic relationship? I struggled to understand why I was holding on to him despite the crazzzy amount of red flags I noticed. Because he was a narcissist, I always felt like I am walking on eggshells, disrespecting me was an attitude, yet I kept obsessing over him. Honestly, looking back into the past, I used to think i will never survive without him, my mind was tricking me, I thought my life would stop, i sometimes felt physically sick when I thought of the breakup. I thought many times of breaking up first but couldn’t do it, he honestly did me a huge favor, not only because I have the chance to meet a better person, but because I learned about my own patterns. I’m fixing me today. After almost 2 months of breakup, I feel great, it’s definitely a roller coaster but guess what? I am still breathing. I wish he feels the pain he caused me to the heart. I’m sending love to everyone grieving over an abusive person. You will get through this.
Breakup. HELP!
So basically me and my boyfriend of only 3 months the broke up on the 31st. I broke up with him. The main reason was because I just rlly haven’t been in the head space to be trying to keep someone else happy while I’m not really happy myself. I’ve been stressed with school, work, grades, and just life. I have barely even wanted to hangout with my friends, let alone my boyfriend. When I realized he wants to hangout a ton and I am really not that type of person I started to think I should break up with him. I also just kind of realized that if I am not looking forward to hanging out with him than does that mean I shouldn’t be with him? So, I decided to break up with him. And he was pretty rude afterwards, guessing he was hurt bc honestly it was very unexpected. We were literally supposed to hangout that day. But I really want to reach out, maybe we could fix it. What should I do?
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