Breakup. HELP!

So basically me and my boyfriend of only 3 months the broke up on the 31st. I broke up with him. The main reason was because I just rlly haven’t been in the head space to be trying to keep someone else happy while I’m not really happy myself. I’ve been stressed with school, work, grades, and just life. I have barely even wanted to hangout with my friends, let alone my boyfriend. When I realized he wants to hangout a ton and I am really not that type of person I started to think I should break up with him. I also just kind of realized that if I am not looking forward to hanging out with him than does that mean I shouldn’t be with him? So, I decided to break up with him. And he was pretty rude afterwards, guessing he was hurt bc honestly it was very unexpected. We were literally supposed to hangout that day. But I really want to reach out, maybe we could fix it. What should I do?

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completebitter5fxujp8mo ago

Part of me wants to say do it but also you don’t want to lead him on either. A relationship is about being excited to see each other and after being the person on the other end of this, if you can’t give them this, especially when this is considered the honey moon phase, then I think you should keep your space. Also I might just be slightly butt hurt since I was on the other end of this but maybe I have you another perspective

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