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Idk
We broke up yesterday, I love him and he loves me but we’re unhealthy and we need to work on ourselves That’s what he told me , he said there wouldn’t be nobody else and idk if I believe him , he said he stills sees me in his future , I just don’t know how to stop contacting him and to just focus on me for a little because it’s always been him . What do I do .. plus I hurt him
Deleting Photos with my Ex
I’m almost 3 months out since my breakup and I’m debating on whether or not I should delete the photos with my ex. I have them in a hidden folder in my photos so that I don’t see them for right now. Some were good memories and some were bad. I’m really leaning towards deleting them, mostly because they’re just reminders of a person who does not exist anymore. He changed a lot for the worse towards the end of the relationship. Should I delete them?
Circumstantial Breakup
I am a college student living in the United States and my ex is a construction worker from England living in Australia. I met him at the start of my study abroad in Australia and we were inseparable the entire time. It was genuinely the best relationship I have ever been in, and I was the happiest I have ever been in my life. He broke up with me right before I left to go back to the United States because he was scared of doing long distance, especially since I was his first relationship. We are still talking, because we ended on good terms and I have hope that he will change his mind, but I feel like I seem a lot more bothered about this breakup than he does. Any advice??
what do i do?? i miss him already
so me and my boyfriend recently broke up and i already miss him. he was my first actual boyfriend, and we were together for almost a year. it was heartbreaking when we broke up. even though it was a mutual agreement to break up, i still am so upset and miss him. we broke up 2 days ago, and i can’t stop thinking about him. my heart hurts and i feel like no one gets me. i don’t want to get back together with him, and i don’t regret breaking up with him because it was needed to be done, i just don’t know what to do or how to cope with this. please help i need advice so if you have anything let me know. thanks.
Day 1
It’s day 1 no contact after a 2.5 year relationship with a narcissist. I realized how much emotionally abused I was in this, but I never had the courage to walk away. He left me yesterday shockingly. I blocked him on all platforms. But my heart is broken into pieces. I can feel it burning and hurting. I don’t know how to navigate a breakup after an abusive relationship. I need so much help.
what do i do (narc abuse)?
it’s been a few weeks since we last talked but we have been together on and off for a year now. this last breakup he blocked me on everything possible and i don’t think there is any way to reach him again, he made it clear that we were over. my problem is, i don’t feel like myself without him. it’s like all meaning in life is gone anytime i have free time to sit with myself and think. i am generally unhappy in moments that used to make me so happy. i can’t get him out of my head, but i know i need to because i think he was a narcissist? sometimes i feel like i am the narcissist? i know i have been abused, but i don’t seem to care and i can’t seem to find happiness and peace without him…. he always turns the breakup on me and i think he is right sometimes, but other times i am confused about who is in the wrong… is this normal for narc abuse?
Only a week but he was my first love.
Im still young but thought i met the absolute man of my dreams. Faith in Jesus. Incredibly attentive and loving and when we were “friends” he was the most sweet man. Then we started dating. At first he was unsure of his feelings but ended up asking me out. The while we were dating he began to pull away. I forgot to mention how when we were still friends we acted like lovers. But yesterday he texted my best friend asking how to “break up” with me. Because he doesn’t feel the same. Apparently i was nothing more than a friend and he dated me out of pity and fear of “hurting my feelings” he was the first boy i dated that i loved and it hurt so much hearing that he never felt the same. Buti wanna get better and grow. It was only 12 days, how do i get over my first love. He met my family church friends and I graved his fingers into my brain. I cant stop thinking of him and it hurts so much.
I got ghosted randomly after 8 months of long distance
I came to our beach condo and he lived 20 mins away. We have been a thing for over 8 months I went offshore fishing sent him pictures that day and had normal conversations until that evening all of a sudden he went ghost. I don’t know what to do I’m so heart broken.
they lied
i found their porn history and they lied about it and i realized theyd been lying to me. they told me they would stop watching porn while i rebuilt trust. that was two years ago. yesterday they told me they never stopped and theyve been lying to me since. they watched me cry so many times and reassured me they werent watching porn. i need to leave dnt i?
I need helppp
Okay so me and my ex both met during the summer for band and clicked instantly. When we started dating, I had no worries and he made me feel so loved everyday. But then my grandfather passed away which took an emotional toll over me and it kinda affected our dynamic since I wouldn’t talk as much. I said we should take a break and we promised each other to find our way back, but two weeks after, a girl that knew and encouraged our relationship backed all friendly and wanted to be soooo close with him and more. She invited him to chill at her hotel and when he told me, I know we were on break so I couldn’t be super bothered, but I was upset so I started talking about him in a manner that was rude and I have apologized for it, they’re now dating and I considered the girl a friend as well so it’s like ughhh mentally draining. But, he said he believes in second chances and I feel like we could start again in the future. I don’t wanna seem crazy but I will wait on him. Should I wait and see what happens or something else idk?
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