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Want him back, still living together

Boyfriend recently broke up with me over resentment. He says he still cares and loves me. I’m taking this extremely hard. I want him back and I want him to see I’ve changed. It’s been about 3 years and our first year was really tough and he still hasn’t forgiven me. It’s only been four days and he’s already chatting up other girls he says it’s just a distraction to avoid falling back to me. I’m just sad and I really believe he is the love of my life. Im giving him the space and time and hoping for a change of mind from him. I figure if I continue to show that I’m different now he can come around to truly forgiving me. I know it might just be over but he’s autistic so it does take him longer to get over things than the average person. I just love him and am not ready to fully close the door on us.

For anyone who needs a bit of comfort during their heartbreak right now 💛

I’ve been having a hard time through my heartbreak right now and I saw this on my tik tok fyp and idk this video just felt like a good reminder especially during the hardest days to be kind to ourselves. We are all worthy of love especially from ourselves 💛 This video felt like a warm hug to me so I hope it’ll do the same for you guys :)

If anyone needs a laugh….

Yeah, not super helpful in tips for healing but man this is funny

How do I stop?

I'm not sure how to stop unblocking and texting him because I miss him so much and I always know he's gonna text me back. How do i stop myself from doing this? I know I never want to get back with him but for some reason I just always want to text him, even though every time we just get into an argument or it just makes me ten times more sad. Tomorrow would've been our two years and I just feel so lonely because I don't have any friends anymore and he was my best friend. People say to reflect on why I blocked him but it just feels like no generic advice like that helps me.

3.5 years

We broke up after 3.5 years and she wants to go no contact now. How can I handle going through all of this?

Do exes always come back even if they initiated the breakup and you initiated no contact?

Avoidant narcissist with victim mentality

I was anxiously codependent on an avoidant narcissist with a victim mentality. I broke up with her when she walked out mid conversation about how bad the relationship has gotten and didn’t contact me for 5 days. I recently learnt, she was already talking to someone knew while I was with her and within 2 weeks of our breakup, they already slept together. Has anyone experienced anything similar and how did you overcome the breakup?

Confusion

I broke up with the guy I thought I’d marry. We were on and off for about a year and a half. He was very immature but I accepted who he was and tried to help grow together so we can build a future. He always said he would change for me so we can achieve our goals. I did my best to comfort him and understand him but he took advantage of the facts that I cared. He Would make me go through the same issues over and over again. An issue bad enough for me to be unhappy and not bad enough for me to leave. I’d break up with him and go back hoping he actually changed this time but never did. I loved him but I don’t think it can work and it breaks my soul knowing I want him to be better but he can’t be for me.

He cheated.

3 years. And he cheated on me with a 19 year old. I took all of my belongings yesterday. I took everything- because he doesn't get to have the things I gave him out of kindness after hurting me this way. She knew he was in a committed relationship and she still took him. It hurts. It hurts like hell. He's been with her for 3 weeks and I just found out yesterday so I took my stuff and we ended things. He couldn't even say it to my face, he text me. He's a coward. He couldn't face his decision. I will hurt for so long and he's running around in the honeymoon phase. Karma will get them. Karma will knock them on their asses and he will realize he lost someone so good.

Been hard since wife left

My wife and I are currently separated and it’s been so hard. Trying to not beat myself up about it but it’s a hard pill to swallow. I feel unworthy and lonely. I know I have to let go and give god the keys to my life. God please order my steps because I’m losing faith.