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i miss her so much i broke contact; she wanted a month break but for what ? if she loves me she wouldn’t give me a month to go party in college and hu with people. We dated for so long and i fucked it up. Help?!!???!? i keep checking her social media.
Manifesting he’ll miss me
Hey guys, how much time did it take for your ex that broke up with you to ready out and try again?
Desabafo
estive com a mesma pessoa durante 9 anos. desde os meus 15 anos. ultrapassamos imensas coisas juntos inclusive a morte do pai dele. estávamos a fazer planos de futuro (casar, ter filhos, etc) e ele acabou comigo do nada. diz que já não vê um futuro comigo. não estou a conseguir aceitar isto. estou a respeitar o máximo que consigo mas não o consigo aceitar.
Help
I am in such a depressive state and want to lean on him and text/call him but I know that is desperate and I don't want to do that. Can someone help me cope with this?
Profound sadness and sense of loss over physical intimacy
How do people get over the loss of physical intimacy? That is honestly the biggest regret and sadness for me, because that affection and physical touch were the only moments where she was genuinely kind and when I felt connected to her. It feels like I have lost a one-of-kind partner in that regard.
8 years downs the drain
My ex broke up with me after 8 years. We lived together and had been together since we were teens. He was my first everything and then we experienced deaths in our families financial troubles and joblessness. It was a lot I know but we just kept pushing through I had gotten really depressed about my job prospects as I know it was causing him stress and then I got sick. He waited until I started to find something new and then I noticed he started taking a liking to his co worker and then everything felt like I was on a roller coaster that had no off switch that everything happened and I didn’t even have a choice and now we share custody of our dog he maintains his relationship with my younger siblings and I speak to his mom sometimes but he just stopped loving me overnight even the day we officially ended it that morning it he told me he loved me how does someone just jump ship like that I’m so hurt lost and confused
Sadness
After 1 year and 4 months my gf broke up with me. Our relationship has always been bad, since the very beginning. There was mental and physical abuse and also cheating. I know all these things may seem awful but I really believe things could be different. She’s a good person but she doesn’t know how to express herself the right way. I think she acts out because she’s struggling and that’s an easy option for her. I know that things can be better I’ve put so much energy and effort into our relationship and towards the end of it I asked her what effort has she put in this and she got upset and said she can’t answer that. (because she hasn’t put in effort) I miss her so much already, I know we have the potential to be better so what do I do?
2 years, he broke up
My bf of 2years broke up with me yesterday.. i really tought he was the love of my life and i would’ve done anything to stay with him. I begged and begged i was on my knees, i couldnt imagine my life without him. I want to give him his space like he asked but i know he wont come back. I really wish he does tho. Im going to take a coffee with his mom this week i loved them so much.. i love him and i really hope he will come back💔
💔
Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 months ago. I thought it would be so much easier, but it isn’t. I’ve tried to get the most positive version out of me but I can’t. People see me smiling but honestly, I never feel like it. I don’t feel like anything, honestly. Deep down I’m crying and hurting but I can’t put it into the world. It makes me vulnerable. I hate that. I don’t know why I’m struggling while he’s doing well. He has a new girlfriend and my heart aches about that. My heart aches when I see him or hear his name. I miss him.
Codependency
My bestfriend of 3 years and I broke up. It wasn't a closed door but we shared friends and we were each others everything for so long. I'm realizing how codependent I was on him for so so long and I want him back but I know that's not right because I need to go on a self love journey. I need to be without him. We are going to talk today ab things and how to move going forward. I saw him at the bar with some of our friends and he didn't say hi and kept looking at a baseball game. So I am bedridden right now. I feel like shit I left the bar and came home and had a severe panic attack. How do I get through this?
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