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What did I do
We we so happy for weeks and weeks and then the summer holiday came and I knew that was going brake us at some point cause I'm all ways so busy in summer holidays and I would not be able to see him then for 6 weeks but then yesterday we did this thing we you go Love you 1% Love you 2% And so on and we did that to 100 and we both did it and we were so happy and then today he broke up with me and it feels like I just got shot in the heart
Why did he leave?
We were so happy and then we started drifting off but we still texted but he didn’t text as much as we used too. And one day it was an emergency and I needed to call him and I told him and he said that “Tristan *his bsf* was here can’t talk gtg” I was crying so I stopped texting him to see if he would text me and I couldn’t hold back do the third day I texted him and I said “heyyyy” he replied in “hi” I was like I miss you and he said “ ik but I don’t” I put a “?” He said “like I don’t miss you “ and I said “oh” he said “yea I have 10 b words in my snap and I’m blocking you”. And to this day I still text him even though he blocked me.
why
why couldn't we have just tried long distance. why. we were supposed to and 6 days from seeing him he said he couldn't. why. why couldn't we have tried.
Is this dumb
I stay until I don’t feel anything towards them because it makes the healing part a little easier . But that also means constant let downs and hurt and wasted time
Day 1
We broke up today because she's heading to college and it's too much stress. We've been fighting because I caught her talking to someone but she claimed it was just friendly even though she hid it. It was two years and it just doesn't feel real, does anyone know how to silence the thoughts
Dated for two years, broke up for college, off and on for a year
Why why why is he the only one that’s allowed to reach out when he wants to use me and then throw me out like I’m disposable. He makes me feel so loved in the moment and then taking a step back it feels like he doesn’t care about me at all because why else would he do this. He works at my dad’s business so I hear about him all the time at home which fucking sucks. I feel so vulnerable and terrible and weak. It’s been a year of no contact for a few months (while thinking about him every day) and then one of us will reach out and hang out and then the cycle continues and I don’t know when it will end. Part of me hopes it will never end so I can always hold on to the possibility that he’ll reach out again. But it’s been a year and it’s not getting any fucking easier. If anyone has a similar situation pls help I’m very upset still lol
I’m just so tired
Healing takes so much energy, anyone know how to recharge kind of?
I don’t really have any resources because I’ve only been sep
I don’t really have any resources because I’ve only been separated from my ex for 2 days but I need feedback and support so here’s a picture of a cute cat. I guess I’ll start by saying the break up was her idea but I am the reason it happened. Me and my ex were only together for 4 months but I those four months I felt real genuine love for the first time. It was amazing but I’ve got a lot of mental health issues caused by trauma among other things which makes it impossible for me to love myself therefore it made it impossible for me to love her in a healthy way. I never laid a hand on her and always respected her to my fullest ability and tried my absolute best to treat her right I’m just not at a place where I can do that right now. I was however emotionally abusive and manipulative because that’s what I was raised around. I never intended to be or tried to be it was just a subconscious thing that I couldn’t control because it showed in the ways I reacted to things. I was staying with her up and her grandparents until the break up. I’m only really posting this to see if there is anything I can do to be better in the future or get some support.
This stings but as soon as I saw this, I felt like I found t
This stings but as soon as I saw this, I felt like I found the answer. So much guilt, hurt, anger, confusion, resentment, everything regarding my recent ex. End of a 6-7 year relationship. And I felt like maybe at one point in the past they represented this. Total wish fulfillment. Now, I can’t imagine or see them feeling this way toward me anymore. I miss them but not them from now. From back then even though there were still problems. I don’t know.
My ex told me she started seeing someone new, she didn’t or
My ex told me she started seeing someone new, she didn’t or couldn’t tell me. She also told me at this point she feels she is dating the wrong person. Also that she’s conflicted and finds it hard to respond my anxious energy. She thinks it’s our attachment and she’s more avoidant. I asked her if she was happy and she said that she didn’t know. The only thing I can do is focus on myself.
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