Seeking Advice

Please someone help me…

We had a relationship for almost 4 years and she betrayed me multiple times maybe like 3-4 times, i begged for love and loyalty in return i just had lies , manipulation and emotional even verbal abuse… when i try to move on she comes back begging me to take her back but still lying i tried to forgive her every time and still doing me so dirty… that’s not even half of the story… Please tell me how to move on with the fact that maybe she never loved me, but why she hates me that much? Why she feels its okay for me to cry and not eat everyday, she doesn’t have the courage to tell me truth and keep messing me around… How do i accept that she have him in her bed , have sex with her, she is in love with him, she is hugging and kissing him, she do everything dor her how to i accept that? How to nove on from that . i cant imagine her being happy while im so miserable..

t
thriftychallenge5oyr
💬 2❤️ 615mo ago
Vent

He made me physically lose myself

Ever since that day my heart is filled with just straight apathy. I feel nothing towards anyone else and I don’t even feel guilty for hurting others.

h
heartfeltbottlembrz
💬 0❤️ 415mo ago
Vent

Vent

He cheated on me every chance he got. Got a girl pregnant in the process who he still defends with his all might. I am tired and it’s a matter of choosing myself and loving myself

t
toughsecondj7b8o
💬 3❤️ 315mo ago
No Contact

Help me

I miss everything about her and us

a
Anonymous
💬 3❤️ 015mo ago
No Contact

I miss her so much

she and i agreed to go no contact over the phone as we broke up basically for the 2nd time and it’s been 3 months, our relationship was perfect and maybe i was moving too fast and expecting too much but she said i was so loving and caring and the best thing ever now she’s going through things in her personal life and has decided it’s not right for her to be in a relationship i find myself confused because she said i didn’t do anything wrong.

s
stridentemployeejvt
💬 1❤️ 215mo ago
Vent

My life

My ex gf who has my daughter and someone new who she’s talking to tells me what they talk about and what she calls him as a pet name. It’s one of those things where maybe she didn’t love me like I originally thought. She abandoned me when I lost my job and went broke. Maybe I’m the problem and maybe I’m delusional. We live together for the baby but I’m deteriorating mentally and I don’t really see value in myself anymore

o
ordinarythingsh53
💬 1❤️ 215mo ago
Vent

Astrology

Is anyone else an Aquarius dealing with a Leo or vise versa? Can you share your thoughts and feelings?

f
fabulousvarietyf18j7
💬 0❤️ 115mo ago
Other

Help?

I keep crying at night and I don’t know how to let go of these thoughts

f
frayedmirrorka9at9
💬 2❤️ 415mo ago
Other

advice pls

He broke up with me about 3 months ago because he lost feelings after a year of being together. For the first month he wrote to me every now and then and wanted us to try again. At the same time, he was already getting to know his new current girlfriend. I don't understand why he did that when he cried until recently and said that he would like this relationship further than me, but he can't love me any longer despite the fact that I'm perfect. Now I see them walking together, he puts her on Instagram all the time (he never added me only when I asked him) and I can't do it because he literally destroyed me with his behavior. How could he replace me so quickly? He said during the breakup that I would always be the most important to him no matter what happens and then he didn't even make me birthday wishes, so soon after I blocked him to go further and for a while it helped me and now it's tragic again. They started talking to each other literally 8 days after our breakup. I'm sorry if what I wrote is chaotic, but I have a lot of emotions now and I don't know what to do, I can't go any further.

i
irritatingmeaning9
💬 0❤️ 215mo ago
Vent

I miss him

He told me he loved me all the time and we didn’t even make it to three weeks he’d find reason to argue with me but I still loved everything about him he was my moms first choice as well he had suspicions of me liking my boy best friend so I stopped talking to my boy best friend even though he said I could have friends that were boys and one day his friend made a inappropriate comment to me and I was uncomfortable so instead of him being mad at the boy he was mad at me basically saying I was overreacting and he was upset about me and my guy best friend getting in contact so I called him childish and then some time in he texted me he loved me and then he was telling me he had to talk to me and I found out he was breaking up with me and instead of it being simple he started segueing me just to have the last word but I still love him and cry about it constantly should I feel this way?

f
frayedmirrorka9at9
💬 0❤️ 215mo ago

Want to share your story?

Post anonymously from the app. Your words might be exactly what someone else needs to hear.

Get Breakup Buddy