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Missing them
Me and ex recently broke up- he advised he’s going to try and do no contact, he’s been in Miami and traveling following new people, other women, and I’m crushed. He was so loving and so affectionate, pros - affection, constant gifts, what felt like support such as saying things like he will always be there for me and my kids, intimacy. Cons- cheated, when we started dating I didn’t know but he was in a long distance relationship, controlling, didn’t want me to go out with friends, made comments like nobody is going to want you with 4 Hispanic kids with different men, broke my ring doorbell off my house, broke my phone. I’m in therapy, on medication, I am very successful in my career so very self sufficient, I would say I am attractive, but I feel so low!! I would love to hear from someone who is further along in their healing journey from an abusive relationship. My hyper fixation is I’ll never move on or feel those high of emotions
Seeking advice
Me and this girl have been together for 6 months after I was in a traumatic life with my mom after my dad left when I was 4 we did good until the overthinking and me thinking she is everyone else interfered and the last night before she ended it to say I need to be better and work on me for one month I logged into her snap and she was dancing with her friends and a guy she wasn’t with I seen and got insecure and called her and tried to see if she was okay she asked for me to wait until she got home I called her friends who hate me on her account because of what I saw and they said that I need to leave her alone and their saying if she talks to me they won’t be her friends because of mine and her situation being toxic so they said to leave me and she wants me to get better but snaps guys and says she don’t text them or see them so it shouldn’t matter because we’re not together so I got over it I just want her back what steps can I take to remember to breathe and not be toxic considering my situation it’s so much I forget and take it out how can I trust someone
Need advice please
I’ll try make this quick but me and my ex boyfriend now had been speaking for a year and had been together since december and at the start he cheated on me but we worked on that, we have broken up a few times for certain reasons as him hurting me etc. We broke up the other day as apparently i do not pay any interest at all to anything he likes,which i do, and now he is moving across the world. I knew from the start that he could have potentially been moving but it’s now for definite and I was meant to go with him but now we aren’t really speaking. He wants to stay in contact for a while whilst we both get over the breakup but it’s just hurting me even more
Pls give me some advice
my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years our relationship was so good in the beginning and we were both so in love then i found out he cheated on me and a lot changed i have fought him lying to me and lusting over girls so many times i cried in his arms about how badly he hurt me and he promised he would change but then did it again this hurt me so much and it made me such an angry person all the time we always fight over things because i can’t trust him no matter how hard i tried to i just couldn’t do it because i was too jealous and worried i have become so insecure about myself and i lost a lot of my friends he is the only person i talk to and i still love him so much despite everything he did a few months later i haven’t fought him doing anything bad but it just feels like he doesn’t care about me as much and i don’t feel like im getting treated how i wanted to be treated so i told him that and he ghosted me then i ended up going to his house and we were on good terms again but then we got into a huge argument a few days ago and he hasn’t responded to me for 5 days i can’t stop crying because i told him i wanted to end things because i wasn’t happy with how i was being treated but now i regret it and im so sad but i told him and he won’t even respond i genuinely don’t know what to do i love him so much.
I’m done
So I’ve been with my bf for almost two years and he still refers to me as his hangout buddy. Even though he lives with me, I have not met his family or friends. I’m not invited to his family gatherings or asked to accompany him to family events. He states that he’ll never love anyone like his exwife so I’ve accepted it. If I ever talk about the future together or make plans, he shuts me down and says we only need to live for the day. I’m 61 years old want to make future plans with a partner who loves me. I told him that we’re done, but then he always says what I want to hear and we’re back together. I’m wasting more and more time and wasting my life.
the whole drama🤯(need some opinions on the whole situation)‼️
so i was in a long distance relationship with him for 2 months (ALMOST) we started on 28 december 2024 where we had met on vacation and blah blah. He broke up with me like 30 january i think cus of the distance and we tried again like 12 february. Now he had asked my advice for his childhood girl bsf and shi like apparently when he first told her we were talking she was super mad and when we stopped she was"jumping from joy".(yeah ik.) Fast forward 26 February i sent him a goodnight text and ily and he started cussing like she saw the msg and now she mad and stuff blocked me on insta i texted on tiktok trynna get an explanation and he was like she wanted me and she's beating herself up and it's my fault and yours she's more important than you like i need her in my life like it's a matter of life and death and yeah told him idk what to say do what u think and shi and he told me do wtv u think i almost don't care anymore and blocked me on tiktok too🥳
She left
I can’t believe she’s gone. I loved her and told her she was the only one I could ever love. I wish she didn’t leave. I moved from North Dakota to Tennessee, but she left because she didn’t love me. How can I go on?
Please someone help me
Me and my ex were together for a year and a half since September 4, 2023 He broke up with me eight days ago on Monday at 3 AM because I wanted to talk to him about how I feel being depressed and having crazy thoughts. I wanted his help and I needed his love and affection, but right then in there, he suggested that we should break up and remain friends. I don’t know what to do because we’ve been remaining friends since because I keep getting memories at school of us being once in love. I want him to come back, but I don’t know how to convince him because he thinks it’s his fault but I feel like he’s gonna come back soon. I just don’t know when but I really love him and I can’t do this by myself.
Me ex met someone else
My ex and I broke up and tried again on and off for a year. We decided it was over and left it at that. A few weeks ago she reached out saying that she missed me and wanted to try again. I can’t remember the last time I was so excited so I agreed. On Sunday she messaged saying she doesn’t want to do this anymore and the reason is she has met someone else. We have a daughter, had a home together and I still believe she is my sole mate. I don’t know what to do now and it’s killing me.
I just wanna fix this
So I made mistakes and so did she I wanted to solve the problems she didn’t she said she was done she wanted space and that she didn’t love me anymore I don’t know what to do at this point I tried to move on already but I just can’t it doesn’t feel right to me I feel like god is telling me that she’s gonna come back and I hope that’s the case I really do cause I love and miss her so much I hope this isn’t the end of us I feel like there’s more left for us I just think I gotta do what I gotta do but I can’t get her off my mind
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