Need advice please

I’ll try make this quick but me and my ex boyfriend now had been speaking for a year and had been together since december and at the start he cheated on me but we worked on that, we have broken up a few times for certain reasons as him hurting me etc. We broke up the other day as apparently i do not pay any interest at all to anything he likes,which i do, and now he is moving across the world. I knew from the start that he could have potentially been moving but it’s now for definite and I was meant to go with him but now we aren’t really speaking. He wants to stay in contact for a while whilst we both get over the breakup but it’s just hurting me even more