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Vent
So was seeing her for almost a year. Friends and family told me she was using me I didn’t want to see it. Two weekends ago after planning a vacation and buying more concert tickets told were down and ghosted. Got her to see me Saturday and she said we’re still exclusive in a relationship. Only reason she met me I think was the purse I promised her. I gave her a different one and she got mad. Sunday night argument over the purse and don. I did give her money for vacation Saturday as well. I’m m so stupid and need to not give her any space on my head.
Bbsf
So basically I have this friend and he used to like I used to like him then we stopped talking for a bit then recently got back cool during this time we both liked each other still more him then me honestly and he was inviting me to his house ivnviting em to do things with him like watch movies and all that stuff anyway fast forward this girl I hated since fifth grade started liking him then they started calling and he slowly stopped calling me then now recently we don’t talk at all we still share locations but I blocked him and her and don’t socialize with them and don’t plan on it.
I love him so much
I love him so much we are semi friends now I love him but so many red flags it’s so hard to know what to do I think if we break up for good I need to go full no contact but it’s so hard because he’s all alone in another country without family and I worry about him but it’s making me anxious to keep in contact I don’t want to mess with his feelings. I don’t think we are ever getting back together or that he will give me that chance again. It sucks we were sooo soo in love only a week or two ago but he gave me an ultimatum to move to Japan to be with him and I said I couldn’t go as soon as he wanted and he was sooo so cruel to me when he got angry and crossed lines idk if it could turn abusive it’s so hard to let him go if it’s what’s best he was my best friend my love my soul mate we had a future together and now it’s In Jeopardy
This has been a long year
IV been separated from my wife for almost a year now. It’s been tough to say the least. The hardest part was watching her date and knowing she slept with other people. I don’t want to sound like a hypocrite but she kinda forced me to go see other people too. I hated every moment of it. Because she was the one I wanted to be with and no one else. For 6 years I never even looked at another woman . She was the love of my life and our separation crushed me. Somehow we got back together after everything we went through but my self worth wasn’t there anymore. I feel like I got back with her to satisfy my ego but once that initial hunnymoon feeling was gone I felt empty in the inside. It doesn’t help that things with us didn’t feel the same anymore either. She treated me different. Not bad just differently. We tried for a few months but things did t end up working out and now we’re looking at getting divorced. It gusts but I know in the end it’s what’s best for me and our kids. We can’t keep brining them in the middle of this just to satisfy our selfish needs
He made me physically lose myself
Ever since that day my heart is filled with just straight apathy. I feel nothing towards anyone else and I don’t even feel guilty for hurting others.
Vent
He cheated on me every chance he got. Got a girl pregnant in the process who he still defends with his all might. I am tired and it’s a matter of choosing myself and loving myself
My life
My ex gf who has my daughter and someone new who she’s talking to tells me what they talk about and what she calls him as a pet name. It’s one of those things where maybe she didn’t love me like I originally thought. She abandoned me when I lost my job and went broke. Maybe I’m the problem and maybe I’m delusional. We live together for the baby but I’m deteriorating mentally and I don’t really see value in myself anymore
Astrology
Is anyone else an Aquarius dealing with a Leo or vise versa? Can you share your thoughts and feelings?
I miss him
He told me he loved me all the time and we didn’t even make it to three weeks he’d find reason to argue with me but I still loved everything about him he was my moms first choice as well he had suspicions of me liking my boy best friend so I stopped talking to my boy best friend even though he said I could have friends that were boys and one day his friend made a inappropriate comment to me and I was uncomfortable so instead of him being mad at the boy he was mad at me basically saying I was overreacting and he was upset about me and my guy best friend getting in contact so I called him childish and then some time in he texted me he loved me and then he was telling me he had to talk to me and I found out he was breaking up with me and instead of it being simple he started segueing me just to have the last word but I still love him and cry about it constantly should I feel this way?
He put an AVO on me for CALLING HIM when he ghosted me
He moved in with me because his parents hated me and his mum was a psycho but then he went on their side and when he didn’t come back home on the 3rd night I called him 60 times and got no response so his sister called the police on me for harassing him.. now I have court on Wednesday.
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