Vent

So was seeing her for almost a year. Friends and family told me she was using me I didn’t want to see it. Two weekends ago after planning a vacation and buying more concert tickets told were down and ghosted. Got her to see me Saturday and she said we’re still exclusive in a relationship. Only reason she met me I think was the purse I promised her. I gave her a different one and she got mad. Sunday night argument over the purse and don. I did give her money for vacation Saturday as well. I’m m so stupid and need to not give her any space on my head.