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I believed in us. I truly thought we were meant to be. I was in a toxic relationship where I lost all my friends because he wouldn’t let me spend time with them, wear makeup, or put on jewelry. He didn’t allow me to do anything. All I ever wanted was peace. We broke up after a lot of harsh words, and I know there’s no going back. He was even aggressive towards me, and yet I still feel sorry for him — because I know he loved me. And the worst part of all is that I still love him. How do I make myself hate him?
No contact
Both 41 🔄 and I’ve broken no contact once but I’ve finally gave up with him and realised that we ain’t ever gonna get back together I wished him well and told him to be safe we both said our goodbyes and blocked eachother on everything we were together for 1month ovbs not a long time but as a 41 🔄 year old you fall inlove so easily and that boy was my rock the loml but it’s always for the best it’s been 1 month no contact and I’m happier than ever
No contact
both 71 🔄,first serious relationship on both sides, lasted 11 months, mostly eachothers first time for everything, she broke up with me 9 days ago, i promised i would change something but i didnt change it which led her to leaving me, she said she finally wont stress anymore, wont go to sleep sad etc. She said she needs AT LEAST 6 months before she starts dating anyone again, she kept my stuff so she wont forget about me, clothes, plushies, gifts, i promised i would wait for her because i dont want to look for love with anyone else, i wanted a future with her, she said she cant promise me anything about us trying again, she did say this “I hope, that maybe in the future we fund eachother again and try again” ive been having alot of thoughts about this, her instagram is also “You cant re read a book and expect a different ending” idk if shes giving me false hope or not, she said she isnt but it could just be that shes doing it for me. Im blocked on snapchat and instagram, maybe my phonenumber but im not sure, i think im not but like i said im not sure, im not blocked on tiktok though, idk why. I want to stop checking her socials every 30 minutes and having these thoughts and “what ifs” i know it would destroy me if some of them came to reality but where do i start and how?
I hate him
So basically he really broke up with me cause some girl told him some dum shit
10 year relationship
I wish I didn’t hate him, but i do. He took me for granted. I moved out and still tried to leave the door open and hoped that he would fix things, but instead i got the blame for moving out. I hate him so much. I wish we didn’t have dogs together coparent. Today is the first day of no casual contact. No contact unless it has something to do with the dogs or the house and the divorce
She broke up with me
We dated for 2 years and it’s all gone now i really did try for this girl she meant the entire world to me i would buy her gifts n other stuff the reason why we broke up is because she wanted to do good for her future and that it was hard to love herself and myself at the same time which is totally understandable but at the same time i would’ve done as much for her but it seems like it wasn’t enough please anyone i really need someone to talk to everyday here’s my instagram ,tjh.eszz thank you all and have a beautiful life!
Breakup
Guys me and my ex broke up a month ago, he was always cheating so I left but I miss him and at the same time I do not. He lives in my neighborhood but doesn’t go to my school I’m so lost I keep checking his TikTok repost what should I do and how long does it take to heal
she’s gone
we ended on bad terms but we spoke and ended on good terms and we said to be friends in november or xmas and i can’t get over the fact it’s over i love her so much i need her and its no contact for now
30 days of no contact
I removed myself from all social medias. This removed the appetite to impress anyone, especially her. I have no desire to contact anymore! Im firm with this decision! I returned to my core. I started doing morning devotion to calm and give myself direction for the day! I am focusing now on my self. I stopped exercising for 5 hours to numb the pain. I started focusing on other matters like my health by cooking healthy foods, my work, and finding new passion like studying a new language. All the best to otgers out there who were dunped! We do not deserve crumbs! Self love!!
No contact
I feel so isolated. My grandmother who raised me is in the hospital and I’m trying so hard not to reach out to my ex, but Journaling and talking to an AI doesn’t provide the feeling of love that sustains a human . 😥. I’m k just so depressed.
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