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it was a random tuesday. after a week of taking a break i reached out to him to break no contact. and he hit me with the news of wanting to break up. honestly its been some weeks since that day and it still replays in my head every second. i miss him so much and we still talk but i dont know wether i have to move on or not. he still checks up on me and asks me if ive eaten and things like that. and he said i could message him whenever i wanted and that hed still be here for me. i dont want to move on actually im still waiting for him but im not sure wether hes also waiting for me or if he moved on already. he looks so fine without me and its upsetting me ngl. i really miss him and the connection we had.

I miss you J_ _

I don’t really understand why you no longer love me. I really miss you. I wish we could talk again but, well… I know it’ll never be a good idea to get back together. It was your decision to break up. I just hope you find happiness after all of this. I really miss you a lot. I know that someday someone will love me like I love you, but until then…. P.S. I fucking hate that I have to go through this.

i miss you

i still dont understand why we broke up. and it honestly feels like its all my fault. im sorry that i overthink too much and im sorry that i have so many insecurities that came up in our relationship too. you loved me properly and i made you feel as if you didnt. i made you feel as if you weren’t enough for me to feel loved just cause of my overthinking. and im extremely sorry for it. i loved being with you those were probably the best months of my life. i genuinely felt loved and i thought i didnt deserve all the loved you gave me. i felt unworthy but at the same time i enjoyed it so much that thinking about letting things go made my heart hurt. i would have never thought youd be the one to end things after promising me that you wouldnt leave me. but i honestly understand june. im hard to deal with i know im sorry. i hope that we’ll find each other again. having to be just friends hurts.

Fuck this

If they wanted to they would. Close the door and the chapter and a new one will open. And if you don't want it closed do smth about it. I'm not chasing him anymore. I'm sick and tired of it.

help

i miss her so much i broke contact; she wanted a month break but for what ? if she loves me she wouldn’t give me a month to go party in college and hu with people. We dated for so long and i fucked it up. Help?!!???!? i keep checking her social media.

Desabafo

estive com a mesma pessoa durante 9 anos. desde os meus 15 anos. ultrapassamos imensas coisas juntos inclusive a morte do pai dele. estávamos a fazer planos de futuro (casar, ter filhos, etc) e ele acabou comigo do nada. diz que já não vê um futuro comigo. não estou a conseguir aceitar isto. estou a respeitar o máximo que consigo mas não o consigo aceitar.

8 years downs the drain

My ex broke up with me after 8 years. We lived together and had been together since we were teens. He was my first everything and then we experienced deaths in our families financial troubles and joblessness. It was a lot I know but we just kept pushing through I had gotten really depressed about my job prospects as I know it was causing him stress and then I got sick. He waited until I started to find something new and then I noticed he started taking a liking to his co worker and then everything felt like I was on a roller coaster that had no off switch that everything happened and I didn’t even have a choice and now we share custody of our dog he maintains his relationship with my younger siblings and I speak to his mom sometimes but he just stopped loving me overnight even the day we officially ended it that morning it he told me he loved me how does someone just jump ship like that I’m so hurt lost and confused

2 years, he broke up

My bf of 2years broke up with me yesterday.. i really tought he was the love of my life and i would’ve done anything to stay with him. I begged and begged i was on my knees, i couldnt imagine my life without him. I want to give him his space like he asked but i know he wont come back. I really wish he does tho. Im going to take a coffee with his mom this week i loved them so much.. i love him and i really hope he will come back💔

💔

Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 months ago. I thought it would be so much easier, but it isn’t. I’ve tried to get the most positive version out of me but I can’t. People see me smiling but honestly, I never feel like it. I don’t feel like anything, honestly. Deep down I’m crying and hurting but I can’t put it into the world. It makes me vulnerable. I hate that. I don’t know why I’m struggling while he’s doing well. He has a new girlfriend and my heart aches about that. My heart aches when I see him or hear his name. I miss him.

Depression

My ex cheated on me. And we have a daughter together. He didn’t talk to me for 11 days on the 12 day he said “respectfully I don’t want to see u anymore or have any sort of interactions with you for awhile” so through my mom I would like to see my daughter so do not deny my daughter from me, we have to discuss how we going to move forward with our daughter because I still plan on supporting my daughter financially and continuing my relationship with her” It breaks me because he didn’t say sorry for cheating or tried to make this family work. I feel like I betrayed my daughter out of a family.