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I dont know what to do
I dont know how to move on, everything was so perfect. I feel stupid, but at the same time he promised that we would speak again in some months. He needed to focus on himself and school. How im i supposed to move on now?
Prioritize your relationship
I lost my relationship because I was too focused on my job and setting us up for a future. I wasn’t there for her and couldn’t take the stress so I asked her to move out. We stayed in contact for 2 months but I wasn’t there for her because I couldn’t balance my career and not having her there for me when I got home. She says she’s over me now and moved on with someone new. It’s been a week since no contact. My work is now slipping because I have no drive to work without her. Everything I was working for feels like it was for nothing.
Prioritize your relationship
I lost my relationship because I was too focused on my job and setting us up for a future. I wasn’t there for her and couldn’t take the stress so I asked her to move out. We stayed in contact for 2 months but I wasn’t there for her because I couldn’t balance my career and not having her there for me when I got home. She says she’s over me now and moved on with someone new. It’s been a week since no contact. My work is now slipping because I have no drive to work without her. Everything I was working for feels like it was for nothing.
grieving & letting go
hi all using this time to grieve let go and focus on me it’s so hard giving all attention and love to myself i’m familiar with giving away even 1/4 in or mm a day is still healing forward to
depressed
I miss my ex so much. we were together for almost 3 years. he was absolutely everything to me. I dropped almost everyone in my life for him so now i’m all alone. i’m not blocked on anything and i still text him everyday. he promised we would stay friends and he wouldn’t leave me but he ghosted me two weeks ago without warning. he send me a black screen everyday on snap to keep our streak alive. i’m just so sad and depressed i miss him so much. i miss litterally everything about him and our relationship
Will he reach out?
I had a really rocky situationship type thing with a guy last year and I am struggling to let go of the anger that I am holding onto based upon his actions. It was me that stopped contacting him around Christmas time but I can’t stop hoping that he will reach out to me. I can’t contact him as I’m blocked on socials and I have deleted his number so I physically can’t contact him and it is only making things worse as I’m just wondering everyday if he will reach out! Do they come back?
Taking it day by day
Dated my best friend for 1 year and 3 months. Got engaged at the 1 year mark. Things started going backwards very fast from the engagement. She first postponed the wedding, then withdrew the engagement and then finally broke up with me just over a month ago. She started using words like “she’s loosing her identity” and “she doesn’t feel safe around me”. The more I wanted to chat about these things with her the more she just withdrew. Lil bit over a month since the breakup and missing my best friend tremendously. Connections like that don’t come around often. Think the thing that hurts the most is that this is the first and only person i wanted to commit my life to and they just ended up discarding of me.
Day one of No Contact #trauma bond
We have been together for 3 years. Give or take. He has cheated on me, 7 times. Give or take. He has lied countless times. He has over 25g worth of debt from cars and food and alcohol. He goes to booby bars for fun. He accidentally OD when he was given laced Coke and they 5150 him for an attempt. I call him to check on him in the facility and he won’t take my calls, straight up tells them to hang up on me. Whatever I got a new phone number, I will be moving forward from now on so thank you. Day 1 🐍❤️
I miss him
I can’t handle the break up , I have gotten no sleep and cried all night and day , barely ate anything I just wish he would talk to me I wrote a long poem about him I just want him back I feel empty without him 😞
Break up
Yesterday I got accused of cheating by my bf so he wanted to go separate ways i literally cry myself to sleep and begged him to stay I care about him so much he was my best friend now I feel all alone and lost 😣
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