I dont know how to move on, everything was so perfect. I feel stupid, but at the same time he promised that we would speak again in some months. He needed to focus on himself and school. How im i supposed to move on now?
It’s not easy, nowhere near, and whatever people will tell makes no difference - you feel how you feel, it will hurt for as long as it will, there is nothing you can do to fast forward it. Don’t force yourself to move on if you can not yet. Talk about it to those you trust, try as much as you can to shift your focus on something else, grieve, cry, yell - do everything feels right for you right now. If he meant to be yours he will, after months when you speak again you might realise you don’t want him anymore, it sounds unreal at the moment, I know, but we all have been there. Think what you want for yourself not him related. Easier to say than to do, I know. But, please, take care of yourself ❤️
From current personal experience I can tell you that it is hard to refocus on yourself. I am currently trying some hobbies I haven’t done in a while and also new hobbies I had been curious about. With new hobbies specifically, it helps keeping yourself entertained and engaging with something new that doesn’t remind you of the person. I am not sure if that will help you but just something to keep in mind if it aligns with your situation.
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