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I’m hurting
I messed up my relationship by cheating. She gave me chance after chance and I still messed up. Now I’m regretting everything I have done to her. She said she rather be friends and that she still love me but she don’t see no relationship anymore. I don’t eabt to be friends what should I do?
I miss him
He texted me few days ago and when i texted back he didn’t even read the message. I feel angry and worried at the same time Shall i text him? He’s the dumper tho
Breakup. HELP!
So basically me and my boyfriend of only 3 months the broke up on the 31st. I broke up with him. The main reason was because I just rlly haven’t been in the head space to be trying to keep someone else happy while I’m not really happy myself. I’ve been stressed with school, work, grades, and just life. I have barely even wanted to hangout with my friends, let alone my boyfriend. When I realized he wants to hangout a ton and I am really not that type of person I started to think I should break up with him. I also just kind of realized that if I am not looking forward to hanging out with him than does that mean I shouldn’t be with him? So, I decided to break up with him. And he was pretty rude afterwards, guessing he was hurt bc honestly it was very unexpected. We were literally supposed to hangout that day. But I really want to reach out, maybe we could fix it. What should I do?
Idk
So 7 years, down the drain on August 24th. I’ve been busy with family since that day. Tomorrow I have to go house sit another family members house for a week. In which I will be all alone. I honestly don’t think it’s hit me fully yet. Should I keep busy ? Should I sit it what I’m feeling ? Idk what to do .. I think my head is just so confused.
Seeking advice
I broke up with him and he keeps texting me and saying that he loves me a lot and wants to get back together even though the reason we broke up was because of his actions and then he’s talking someone else and he keeps telling me how he thinks am more prettier then her and how he wants to be with me and using her to get over me but i feel bad for the girl .
he won’t stop talking to me
we broke up a few days ago and now he is acting like everything is normal and still telling me he loves me and everything. i’ve asked him if he wants to get back together and he always says no and reminds me of everything i didn’t wrong in the relationship. after i asked him that, i told him if he saw no future with me right now to stop texting me and he is still finding ways to reach out. what should i do?
Asexual advice
My gf of a year said they might be asexual, that might be a deal breaker for me so we’re on a break rn but idk what to do or how to feel, I love them so much but intimacy is a big deal for me
Tough break up
We weren’t talking for long but I gained a strong attachment because of my anxiety the breakup was because she is going through a lot mentally not because she doesn’t like me or want me but because she can’t mentally be that for me. We decided to be friends as there is no bad blood at all. I’m just hoping sometime in the future we find our way back. Replies are very welcomed as I’m not sure on how to handle all this
Struggling
He left bcos his mental health is overpowering his thoughts and he feels as though he can’t be there for me right now when he can’t even be there for himself. I said I’d wait for him and he said it wouldn’t be fair on me but he never said no. His love for me was so genuine and real and I know he’s scared due to his abusive previous relationship. I’m really struggling and I need advice
Is he leaving me???
My husband kicked me out of the house over two weeks ago. He changed the locks and told me he needed space. He said he was afraid because he was getting old and some of my adult kids don’t like him. He said one day when he’s at his weakest, they will put a pillow over his face and rob him. Even though they never come to his house. He’s worried I would let them in which I’ve never given him a reason to believe I would do so. They all live 2 hours away. He says he loves me very much but that our relationship has changed. Do you guys think this means he’s leaving me? I’ve been very hurt and crying!! He doesn’t call me or text me except sparingly. I’ve been evicted from my home. I bought him the house and it is 100% in his name.
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