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Making a list of undesirable qualities my ex/our relationshi
Making a list of undesirable qualities my ex/our relationship had to reference while I’m stuck romanticizing has helped bring me back to reality
I’ve really struggled with asserting myself and not just agr
I’ve really struggled with asserting myself and not just agreeing with my ex to keep the peace. I knew it wasn’t the right thing to do but I did it cause I didn’t want her to leave me. This video has brought me so much clarity on the effect of this in my life. It has made me realize that If I want real intimacy, I have to be honest with myself and my partner and if they don’t like that, it’s better to find someone who will love the real me than a false persona. Best of luck healing everyone ❤️
Last year I met someone that changed my life and my percepti
Last year I met someone that changed my life and my perception of love. We were so great for each other, she made me feel seen and appreciated for who I was. I love her still and I know I always will and that’s okay. She appreciated me, constantly showed her love for me. We had a ton in common and always had something to do. Even our love languages matched and it was as near perfect as it could get. What happened you ask? Well she has an illness that had affected her for years and she got sick again. She became bed ridden, apologetic, resentful and distant. She couldn’t be there for me and she knew it. I tried to support her and tried so hard to give her everything I had because I loved her so much. In the end she broke up with me and said she still cared for me but couldn’t promise anything as she could be sick for years. She couldn’t give me what she thought I deserved and through a lot of tears we agreed to let it go. I was devastated more than I have ever been. This meditation is for anyone who has broken up for external reasons. It’s for anyone whose relationship has ended with love still on the table. It’s helped me appreciate her and appreciate the beautiful time I spent with her. I don’t know if I will ever find someone who can compare to her but I’m still working on the pain. Thank you for listening
2 months ago, my ex and I broke up. We were pretty long term
2 months ago, my ex and I broke up. We were pretty long term and it was pretty hard on me. I’ve definitely cried and struggled a lot and relapsed (went from 18 days of no contact back to day 1, I’m blocked now :/). Knowing that he moved on quick and healed from me quickly yet he didn’t want anything to do with me and only saw the negatives in me, I felt so heartbroken and so alone and I felt like I didn’t have anyone to talk to. I talked to my family, my friends and even people who might’ve reached out, but when you don’t really experience it, you don’t really know what to say. I came across this video a long time ago and through every one of my breaks ups, I’ve watched it and eventually healed. I felt so alone for a long time but seeing that others went through similar experiences and it was documented for me to see, I felt okay and knew I wasn’t alone. I hope this helps somebody understand that. Take care lovelies, we can heal and grow🫶🏻.
This has helped me to realise that “This too shall pass”
This has helped me to realise that “This too shall pass”
Podcast on the 7 stages of healing and science behind each s
Podcast on the 7 stages of healing and science behind each stage and tools. Saved me
Since my ex dumped me, I’ve been trying to get a better unde
Since my ex dumped me, I’ve been trying to get a better understanding of how I should think about love. I want to love again, and love freely, and this video helped me realize I can get closer to that by seeking the truth underlying people’s actions. Oftentimes, they’re just as scared, hurt, or self absorbed as we are. I don’t want her back, but I think I’ll be more forgiving in love the next time around.
I had a dream about her last night too, except I was the one
I had a dream about her last night too, except I was the one who felt off about the relationship. I cared for and wanted the best for her and thought she was attractive, but I didn’t feel “love” for her, and I could tell she was holding back. Like I knew we weren’t good for each other. It was an interesting perspective flip in a dream, and kind of reminded me of this Reddit post of someone with a similar perspective. They’re not a bad person, we’re all just looking for someone we can love, and that “clicks” with us.
I had a dream about my ex last night. It felt so real. I loo
I had a dream about my ex last night. It felt so real. I looked up this article and found it helpful as a lens to look at the dream through. I shouldn’t take it as a ‘step back’ in healing, but a chance to check in with myself about how I’m coping. If you've dreamt about your ex too, don't worry, it happens to the best of us lol.
I woke up missing my ex so bad, I read this post and it help
I woke up missing my ex so bad, I read this post and it helped remind me to trust my gut feeling that I had with my ex. I knew something was off. I just didn’t want to admit it
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