New break up

Been with him for 7 years. He recently started a new job and everything changed. We’ve always had minor problems but nothing to the point that we were unhappy. Now all of a sudden, he says “some days I want to be in a relationship and some days I don’t” and he been saying that “he wants to see how it’s feels to be alone and maybe he’s missing out on things that he feels he never experienced. It’s hurts the most because he wanted this relationship. We were friends before this and I know after everything, I lost a friend and a boyfriend.. please send words of encouragement. I definitely need it

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proudvalue069mo ago

Sending you all my support

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B-Rad 9mo ago

He probably met someone at his new job. That's a sure sign of that if he started acting different when at a new job. That also means y'all weren't as solid as you thought that it was that easy for him to practically move on.

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luminouscashy2cy9mo ago

Stay strong. Never falter for someone who starts treating you like an afterthought and work on silently healing and rebuilding yourself so that you yourself are full as a person and wont rely on his presence especially because he has been there for so long. He should be an addition to your life, not a missing puzzle piece. You got this and you’re doing so well holding yourself together like this and speaking out already

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