Broke up with me on New Year’s Eve

A girl I was dating for a few months was treating me so well, doing nice things for me all the time and making an effort. I got drunk a few times when she wasn’t even with me and sent a few messages to her that she said were “off”, after that I didn’t see her for 3 weeks straight. We then went away for a night for my birthday and I gave her a ring to make her happy. She loved it. She then came to my parents place on Christmas Day and collected presents I had bought her and her son and seemed a bit off. Then a few days later on New Year’s Eve she broke up with myself by text when she was on holiday saying that her son was struggling with the previous breakup and that she needed to focus on him. I did react angrily by text and now she’s blocked me. This absolutely broke me and still does but it seemed she still had ties to her ex who I actually knew as a person when I was younger. I believe she never wanted him to find out about us and she decided to pull the trigger on me. Life is tough…

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lopsidedpizzaq17fvm16mo ago

She used you bro… her son isn’t struggling it’s her who’s struggling… move on bro the sooner the better you’ll feel. Don’t make the same mistakes I’ve made.

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Anonymous16mo ago

Thanks bro, she did so much for me and when I made a small drunk mistake by text she ghosted me for weeks on end and then reappeared again only to break up with me. Weirdest end to something I thought was going to last forever. I’m healing day by day though because we’ve had no contact since NYE. I’m writing her a letter to apology for the names i called her when she broke up with me. I feel it’ll give me closure and make me the better person, especially as she was the one to end it for such a petty reason!

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