Break up after 4 years

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m in a similar boat. It hurts so bad to have an ending like this be out of your control after so much time with a person. I’m really struggling with hoping my ex will change his mind.

Same, i just too got out of a 4 year relationship.So much time and energy was put into it just for it to not work out.I wish things can be different, but waking up and reliving the same feeling everyday realizing that they’re gone hurts so much.