3rd break up but I think he will likely be back
The first time we broke up, it was out of nowhere. He just disappeared and then came back into my life a week later it was probably the coldest and coolest thing he could’ve done, but regardless because I was so in love with him I decided to get back with him. Throughout the entirety of our second trial, it was me essentially chasing him, but I had to hit a point where I could no longer do it and so I decided to break up with him, even though he tried flipping it and making it seem like he broke up with me. after that, I didn’t reach out to him for three weeks around which he decided to come back and try to talk to me. I kept things casual and wished him the best and told him that was right. However, he would reach out and then out in person finally realized how much we missed each other. At that point I told him that I still didn’t trust him and they we can talk if he fixes 2 things. After a month of fixing it he reached out and I tell him that our relationship with be slow. I finally started letting my guard down and he tells me that he is unhappy. Mind u the second time we’re together he was struggling financially and said that was the reason he ran away. This time too he’s in a similar situation where he lost his promotion at work and was too broke to buy anything for his new apartment. I told him that it might be other stress and to think about it but he broke up still. I think like the other 2 times before he will be back but I am officially done with this man child. On another notes when breaking up he said “sometimes I just want to be consumed by u and at other times I want to be left alone” as we broke up