I need help

About a month ago, I got out of a mess relationship where I never really got appreciated. Then about a week ago, I met this girl that blew my mind and won over my heart in an instant. We talked really good for this week and we had common morals and beliefs, and it seemed that she was perfect for me. But today her brother told her that I was still talking to my ex, which wasn’t true. And she has a past relationship which the guy was still talking to his ex. I’m not sure if that is what is going on or if she just didn’t want to be with me, or even if her brother didn’t want to accept me. This literally happened to me an hour ago and I can’t stop overthinking or crying. I know it was only a week of talking but I was so attached to this girl that it’s killing me. She told me that she wanted to be alone and she feels iffy about our relationship, I need a girl to give me some advice about this situation because I don’t want to give up on this yet. I really want to call her and text her but idk if she just wants to get over me or something else. Please help me

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sandyfix85qmphq20mo ago

This sounds like a little unhealthy if you just met her and already are this worried about it.

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sandyfix85qmphq20mo ago

I didn’t mean for this to sound rude. It’s normal to have crushes on people. I agree with the other commenter though, if you tend to build people up immediately when you meet them and make them larger than life, you may want to look into your attachment style. I like Heidi priebe’s videos about attachment on YouTube. Because eventually you will learn they have flaws. You can tell her. But if she doesn’t want to talk, there’s not much you can do about that.

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Anonymous20mo ago

Dude Heidi Priebe is awesome! 👏

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quarterlygirly20mo ago

Hey, it’s normal that girl is overthinking everything. She had bad experiences with her ex but that doesn’t make you him. I think you should work about your attachment issues tho… after 1 week talking you shouldn’t feel that attached. If you really wanna try with this girl I should give her a few days but first call her or text her (calling is better) and tell her that you didn’t mean for it to go this way and that you really stopped talking to your ex. Tell her that it was a misunderstanding and that if she needs time to trust you it’s normal, tell her she can count on you and that you can give her a time to think about it bro

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