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roughpropertyxb2nnd
9mo ago
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Unexpected text from ex

My ex of 7 years blindsided me into a break up almost 8 months and last we spoke was 6 months ago. The relationship wasn’t bad but we were both going through career growth and had to move to different places 2 months before the break up. Which we did at one point in the past and we made it work. We didn’t have crazy fights and he never told me anything was bothering him until he broke up with me citing the workload in our life and the distance which is fair. The problem is that after all that while I was still trying to make sense to things he blocked me then and like 3 months after unfollowed me on instagram. We used WhatsApp occasionally while we were together. I realized when I was going over my documents in my computer that he had some documents with my information from one time I had to borrowed his laptop to submit some things that had a deadline for applications I was partaking in at that time. I message him on WhatsApp since i wasn’t sure if I was still blocked and wanted to see if the message got delivered. It was a straight forward text. Just asking him to delete them and said thanks. I made sure the text had no open questions because I did not want to give the idea that I wanted to talk to him or that I was trying to connect with him. Because honestly I didn’t want to reconnect in any way. He didn’t replied that message for like 2-3 weeks which was expected. But then he randomly message a “how are you”. Didn’t even mentioned the documents. I haven’t replied and I don’t plan to. I am just surprised because it was unexpected. I assume things are not going as well as he expec.

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splendidholdzj0suv9mo ago

I wish my ex would message me. I miss him so terribly. I love him so much. He basically did the same thing to me. I had to keep traveling a lot for my job and I had to take care of my daughter who was sick. We had some financial troubles but instead of trying to work them out with me, he kicked me out of the home I bought for him and said he needed space. I just want him back and I want my life with him back

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roughpropertyxb2nnd9mo ago

It honestly took a lot not to answer. But he disrespected me and our relationship so much I can’t continue being treated that way by him. I lost enough of myself already.

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