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popularparent2d9pk
21mo ago
Vent

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Hello everyone I started dating this guy Nov 2022 and found out he was a lier in Jan 2023. December he went jail and got him out. He lost his job, his home and I wanted to be the down girlfriend in my mind. January he had surgery help him was there with him. February his mother passed was there and helped him. March went back to jail got out. Gave him the money to move into his place. Helped him moved everything. Gave him money every week treated him really well. July we moved together due to me helping him so much I fell down. Helped him the whole time got him on his feet again. He did fraud him and his new girlfriend in my name. Throw all me and my kids stuff out. Got in a relationship the next day we broke up April 10 2024. Treated her like a queen lied and told everybody I stole money from him started saying bad things about me . They start living together the next day now she pregnant due Jan 12,2025. I don’t love him anymore I just can’t get over him a person could discard a person that was good to them. What hurts the most how could God bless them and how am I the only one crush and hurt.

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sandyfix85qmphq21mo ago

That sounds so hard. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Betrayal is traumatic. And it sounds like this man has little remorse or empathy for others. Cheaters like this will repeat this pattern in their next relationship too. He will lack empathy in that relationship too most likely. The book “leave a cheater, gain a life” might be helpful for you. It covers how to cope with seeing a cheater with their affair partner after. These people take take take. They always will. It may look like they get the upper hand for now. Trust that karma will bite back eventually. You obviously really care about people, it may be shitty now, but you are the real prize in this situation. You can build a better life eventually without this guy.

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