Trying to look forward
That hard part for me has been reminding myself that I can find someone else that I can connect with as I have with her. She was so funny, smart, pretty, and kind. She was the whole package. But what has been helping me is telling myself that love exists everywhere and it’s you that makes someone special to you. It’s nice to know that this past relationship, although it didn’t last, stands as a testament to all of our ability to find the good in people. There will always be people for you to care for. It’s also easy to forget the flaws. When I look more closely at our relationship, I can see now that in hindsight, she was amazing but being in her presence and being the center of her attention took away from the very real flaws that she had.