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12mo ago
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Heartbreak without even speaking

I finally felt ready to be open with someone. I met who I thought was an amazing guy - shared goals and values. We could speak easily about anything. Until I learned that he’s not so good speaking about conflicts. We became official 3 months after dating. Two months in the relationship, I could see his effort was waning. I expressed that I felt like I wasn’t a priority and he withdrew entirely. Despite numerous attempts to speak, he went into a shell. Didn’t even try to call me. Then he broke up via text. Then made promises to meet in person and hasn’t even followed through. I had no agency. He treated me like we had just been on the first date and he realised he didn’t want to continue. I’ve been emotionally and physically weak for 3 weeks.

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well-groomedchalleng12mo ago

I’m so sorry. I’m dealing with something similar. It’s obviously something going on with him. I hope you feel loved and chosen. I hope your heart heals and you love someone again. He wasn’t ready for your ive but someone else will be

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slushyenthusiasmy4hi12mo ago

Sorry to hear that. Sounds like he was already emotionally checked out

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roughpropertyxb2nnd12mo ago

Hey! I’m sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar after a 7 years relationship. It feel like you are grieving someone due to the lack of closure and the lack of communication. It is normal that you feel this way now, but it will past. You just need to set small goals for yourself daily or weekly, whatever works best for you. It you feel people you can talk to, friends and family I would recommend to do so. Try to go on simple coffee dates with friends and do things that get you out of the house even if it’s not what you are in the mood for.

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